Restrained Autistic Student dies on bus

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24 Dec 2016, 5:12 pm

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Obviously it's tragic when someone dies in this fashion, but violence begets violence.


You must be trolling.


Maybe not Ezra.

I think this is androbot01's true and very best attempt at showing compassion for others...it's just there doesn't seem to be much there (which may make his/her best efforts seem like trolling.

People that didn't receive any, or very little, compassion when growing up have a different definition of compassion than most (just ask me).

If a person never realizes this about themselves, they can't understand (and therefor they disbelieve) what we're saying.


In my opinion the statement and repeated conclusions simply don't have anything to do with the situation.



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24 Dec 2016, 5:18 pm

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...It's really not credible to deal with real life events from inside the confines of your own little world.

Sure, marginalization. Much easier than to accept fault. I am not the only one in a little world.

I am forced to say bluntly that if one cannot control one's physical attacks on others, then the consequences will be physical. This issue to me is an example of the disabled expecting too much from society, or to put it another way, Special Snowflake Syndrome. No one is so special that it's okay that they unpredictably attack other people. I believe that there are steps to take to avoid physical meltdowns, including medication. Not to use a tool that helps with such a condition is selfish. However, if these physical meltdowns cannot be controlled then one shouldn't be surprised when something like this unfortunate death occurs. Obviously the preceding comments are my own view and will surely be seen as heartless, but I think it is more heartless to ignore reality.


Does this philosophy apply to grand mal seizures as well?



Huh, I have had a grand mal seizure and I never attacked anyone. I was only on the floor with my lips blue and my eyes rolled back and it took 10 to 15 minutes for anyone to notice.


The point is, a grand mal seizure is something no one has control over. It's not an act as in an act of violence. It's something triggered by a neurological malfunction.



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24 Dec 2016, 5:23 pm

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The article lacked too much detail for me to form an opinion. I feel sorry for the parents though who have lost their child. How do you die from being restrained? I wonder why he had to be retrained in the first place? Was he being aggressive so they had to restrain him to keep him from hurting others on the bus or did he not want to leave school so they had to drag him out there(not literally) and put him on the bus and hold him in the seat? Or did he not want to go to school so they had to drag him outside from his home to the bus and hold him in his seat? Could he have been self harming so they had to restrain him?


Restrain often means: An arm around a throat.


Not in a situation like this. I feel pretty certain that the death was due to some other factor. I have seen autistic students restrained in similar similar situations and a choke hold is not something that would be applied. If it was some brand new worker who had little or no training, maybe that might happen. But that's not the case here.



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25 Dec 2016, 5:34 am

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It appears to me some people lack empathy. They may not understand it or it just doesn't fir in with their peosonal philosophy. It's doubtful these people can or will change into more understanding persons.
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People who try to blame such occurrences on sick people, and their illness, are definitely lacking in understanding and human compassion.

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And, as I'm unable to form an overall opinion of you, I only offer comment about your statements of opinion in this thread.

I guess you could say the first quote is a general comment, but I think I can figure it was directed at me.

Anyway these two quotes are in contradiction of one another.

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In my opinion the statement and repeated conclusions simply don't have anything to do with the situation.

I don't know how you can keep saying that. The investigators have said that it appears to have been an accident.



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25 Dec 2016, 11:55 am

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In my opinion the statement and repeated conclusions simply don't have anything to do with the situation.

I don't know how you can keep saying that.


I bet you know perfectly well.



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26 Dec 2016, 7:11 am

Main Line autism school beats the odds, greets mid-century milestone

The Timothy school in the Philadelphia area has been a school for autistic children since the "refrigerator mother" days of 1966. It serves moderately to severely autistic children. I am positive they have seen thier share of violent meltdowns in the last 50 years. As far as I know no one has died while bieng restrained in thier care


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26 Dec 2016, 7:54 am

It's such common practice in such schools which I've attended my whole life. We're special needs and anything done to us is always under close scrutiny. Terms like violent meltdown or outburst, should not be viewed the same as someone losing their temper. But rather the result of someone being under extreme distress.

As far as death goes, I know of three students at the two schools I've attended, who died suddenly at school. Cardiac arrest, cerebral hemorrhage and severe asthma attack. I've come close to dying myself more than once. A lot of us moderate to severe autistics seem to have sketchy health issues.



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26 Dec 2016, 8:07 am

Okay, let's say you guys are right and the evil care workers murdered the kid deliberately. What is their motive?



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26 Dec 2016, 9:17 am

Like I said I do not know but if I would hazard a guess I would guess one of four general possibilities, deliberate cold blooded murder is not one of them.

1. Poor Training

2. They lost their temper and lost control

3. They were trying to hurt but not kill him

4. Preexisting medical condition

5. Some combination of 1 through 4

If two or three happened the workers need to be prosecuted, if 4 happened and the school knew about, it some administrators need to be prosecuted If 1 happened the school needs to be sued.

If the deceased had a preexisting condition but it was not known, should they have? This is complicated as people die from previously unknown conditions all the time. If the school hired quack doctors the probably should get sued, but even that is complicated if it is a public school as taxpayers might have not funded them properly.

If you think I am being harsh all I am doing is asking for accountability for professionals whose job description is partially about protecting students from themselves just as you want from the disabled students.


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26 Dec 2016, 9:42 am

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2. They lost their temper and lost control

This reason is particularly ironic.



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26 Dec 2016, 12:48 pm

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Like I said I do not know but if I would hazard a guess I would guess one of four general possibilities, deliberate cold blooded murder is not one of them.

1. Poor Training

2. They lost their temper and lost control

3. They were trying to hurt but not kill him

4. Preexisting medical condition

5. Some combination of 1 through 4

If two or three happened the workers need to be prosecuted, if 4 happened and the school knew about, it some administrators need to be prosecuted If 1 happened the school needs to be sued.

If the deceased had a preexisting condition but it was not known, should they have? This is complicated as people die from previously unknown conditions all the time. If the school hired quack doctors the probably should get sued, but even that is complicated if it is a public school as taxpayers might have not funded them properly.

If you think I am being harsh all I am doing is asking for accountability for professionals whose job description is partially about protecting students from themselves just as you want from the disabled students.


I think you're being very realistic. The only theory I take exception to is the idea that the victim provoked action against his person which resulted in his death.

Hopefully there will be some followup news including the cause of death.



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26 Dec 2016, 5:22 pm

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2. They lost their temper and lost control

This reason is particularly ironic.


I had not thought about it, but now that you pointed it out it the irony is obvious.


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27 Dec 2016, 1:21 am

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Like I said I do not know but if I would hazard a guess I would guess one of four general possibilities, deliberate cold blooded murder is not one of them.

1. Poor Training

2. They lost their temper and lost control

3. They were trying to hurt but not kill him

4. Preexisting medical condition

5. Some combination of 1 through 4

If two or three happened the workers need to be prosecuted, if 4 happened and the school knew about, it some administrators need to be prosecuted If 1 happened the school needs to be sued.

If the deceased had a preexisting condition but it was not known, should they have? This is complicated as people die from previously unknown conditions all the time. If the school hired quack doctors the probably should get sued, but even that is complicated if it is a public school as taxpayers might have not funded them properly.

If you think I am being harsh all I am doing is asking for accountability for professionals whose job description is partially about protecting students from themselves just as you want from the disabled students.



Or another speculation, when the teachers butted in to break up the fight, the autistic student started to attack the staff so they fought back in self defense and he died that way. If anyone started attacking me, it would either be I would try and get away or I fight back in self defense to get them away from me and then I run. It would be a fight or flight response. A disorder wouldn't matter. Only thing it would matter is I had someone attacking me and they were much bigger than me so I fought back. I am unlikely to kill them of course because I wouldn't be strong enough but my husband probably would of he saw anyone hurting our children or me. He would also be in fight or flight response as well while defending and then he would plead insanity if the attacker was mentally ill or severely autistic or intellectually impaired. But I would be sure the killing would be unintentional on my husband's part. It would just be a tragic thing and not a crime IMO. It would be a time to feel sad for both parties and see it as an accident and sad.


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27 Dec 2016, 3:20 am

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Like I said I do not know but if I would hazard a guess I would guess one of four general possibilities, deliberate cold blooded murder is not one of them.

1. Poor Training

2. They lost their temper and lost control

3. They were trying to hurt but not kill him

4. Preexisting medical condition

5. Some combination of 1 through 4

If two or three happened the workers need to be prosecuted, if 4 happened and the school knew about, it some administrators need to be prosecuted If 1 happened the school needs to be sued.

If the deceased had a preexisting condition but it was not known, should they have? This is complicated as people die from previously unknown conditions all the time. If the school hired quack doctors the probably should get sued, but even that is complicated if it is a public school as taxpayers might have not funded them properly.

If you think I am being harsh all I am doing is asking for accountability for professionals whose job description is partially about protecting students from themselves just as you want from the disabled students.



Or another speculation, when the teachers butted in to break up the fight, the autistic student started to attack the staff so they fought back in self defense and he died that way. If anyone started attacking me, it would either be I would try and get away or I fight back in self defense to get them away from me and then I run. It would be a fight or flight response. A disorder wouldn't matter. Only thing it would matter is I had someone attacking me and they were much bigger than me so I fought back. I am unlikely to kill them of course because I wouldn't be strong enough but my husband probably would of he saw anyone hurting our children or me. He would also be in fight or flight response as well while defending and then he would plead insanity if the attacker was mentally ill or severely autistic or intellectually impaired. But I would be sure the killing would be unintentional on my husband's part. It would just be a tragic thing and not a crime IMO. It would be a time to feel sad for both parties and see it as an accident and sad.


Fight or Flight is a normal reaction but the school staff are bieng paid not to give in to that reaction and use best practices to diffuse this type of situation which is not uncommon in a special needs school.


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27 Dec 2016, 12:34 pm

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Or another speculation, when the teachers butted in to break up the fight, the autistic student started to attack the staff so they fought back in self defense and he died that way.


I don't think it was a fight. What I read was, "When another student tried to step in to help, he ended up getting hurt." I think that means the student in distress was probably flailing his arms around and the student trying to help probably accidentally got hit in the face or got poked in the eye or something.


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Fight or Flight is a normal reaction but the school staff are being paid not to give in to that reaction and use best practices to diffuse this type of situation which is not uncommon in a special needs school.


No it's not at all uncommon. I have watched it happen many times.



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27 Dec 2016, 12:50 pm

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I don't think it was a fight.


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CBS2’s Jeff Nguyen reported the teen — who had autism — died following a fight on the bus early Friday evening on his way home from school.

Investigators believe Corona got into with another student and school workers who had to restrain him with the help of the bus driver.

At one point, police say the teen passed out.
CBS