Esmerelda Weatherwax wrote:
It really is mind blowing. When a (traditional) couple divorce, the woman generally sees a reduction in financial status, unless she is an independent whitecollar earner with a full time job. Most of these women will be pink collar, part time, or SAHMs.
Often, if a divorced woman retains the house, she finds that she can't afford it on her own (I am amazed at what I spend on yearly maintenance/repair! and I'm OK financially for now at least), and she will end up selling it.
Child support is managed by each state; some are totally indifferent to deadbeat dads, meaning that the woman has to take her ex to court, meaning yet more legal bills (after she had to sell the house already). And family court is a crapshoot, all too often.
There is definitely an economic pressure on women married to conservative men, to stay married - which means internalizing their husbands' values.
I can run some searches and send you some links if you like. There's a lot of - emotion, I guess - on both sides (divorced women angry at men, divorced men angry at women, distortion in both cases) so it takes some sorting to get through the chaff. But there are statistics.
(edit in: one of the things I will love my father for until the day I die, is that he took me aside and explained just how vulnerable I would be, if I married and did not retain the means to support myself. God bless him. I did not marry, but because of his advice and support, I was self supporting all my working life.)
(second edit: this relates to working class white folks. Most black families have been two-earner for a long, long time. And of course their experience of America is radically different. So there's little cognitive dissonance for a black woman voting in her, her husband's, her family's best interests - those genuinely do converge both politically and economically.)
I live in a very dark red area of my state, one other I would add on to that list from my experience locally is good 'ol fashioned religion. Even in this day and age it's not uncommon for divorced women to be shunned from church social gatherings. It may not sound like much, but for a lot women that is their social group, and losing status or being shunned has a profound effect on not only their mental health, but also economics, since that's the go to place for a lot them to network and find a job.