AardvarkGoodSwimmer wrote:
What if . . and here I can be very idealistic . . the parents of the toddler say to the family next door, it's just a dog, it's not good for our son if the dog is killed, what if we try and make some kind of reconciliation?
The family next door puts up a chain link fence in the front yard (yes, fighting the homeowners association along the way). The boy slowly---with supervision!---makes friends with the dog. The dog accepts him basically as a family member, but importantly is not left unsupervised, at least not until the boy is a lot older and bigger.
It would be nice, but there's a good chance the kid is terrified of dogs now. I was bitten as a kid and for years I was so afraid of dogs I would refuse to anywhere with dogs (which is almost everywhere).
I still don't like dogs, but I feel sad they want to put this dog down. There should be some solution for dogs like this, for example someone who lives outside the city and has no young children. Or have a dog shelter for ill-behaved dogs on some empty stretch of land away from people.