4-Year-Old In Texas Sent Home For Having Long Hair

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22 Aug 2017, 8:31 pm

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I sure hope there is another less backwards school she can send her son to attend.


So how far should policies of this kind be relaxed do you think?

to the extent that at least one appropriate school in a district exists. short of that, the school district should not be allowed to be so exclusionary. the stress should be on education and not on externals.


So it should go from dress codes to no codes?



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22 Aug 2017, 8:39 pm

EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
I sure hope there is another less backwards school she can send her son to attend.


So how far should policies of this kind be relaxed do you think?

to the extent that at least one appropriate school in a district exists. short of that, the school district should not be allowed to be so exclusionary. the stress should be on education and not on externals.


So it should go from dress codes to no codes?

behavioral codes, not dress codes. how a person dresses is meaningless.



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22 Aug 2017, 8:53 pm

auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
I sure hope there is another less backwards school she can send her son to attend.


So how far should policies of this kind be relaxed do you think?

to the extent that at least one appropriate school in a district exists. short of that, the school district should not be allowed to be so exclusionary. the stress should be on education and not on externals.


So it should go from dress codes to no codes?

behavioral codes, not dress codes. how a person dresses is meaningless.


What about gang attire?



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22 Aug 2017, 8:55 pm

EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
I sure hope there is another less backwards school she can send her son to attend.


So how far should policies of this kind be relaxed do you think?

to the extent that at least one appropriate school in a district exists. short of that, the school district should not be allowed to be so exclusionary. the stress should be on education and not on externals.


So it should go from dress codes to no codes?

behavioral codes, not dress codes. how a person dresses is meaningless.


What about gang attire?

gang behavior=NO. gang attire, maybe. i'd go so far as to have a conservative school and a liberal school. behavior is the key, not appearance.



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22 Aug 2017, 9:22 pm

auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
EzraS wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
I sure hope there is another less backwards school she can send her son to attend.


So how far should policies of this kind be relaxed do you think?

to the extent that at least one appropriate school in a district exists. short of that, the school district should not be allowed to be so exclusionary. the stress should be on education and not on externals.


So it should go from dress codes to no codes?

behavioral codes, not dress codes. how a person dresses is meaningless.


What about gang attire?

gang behavior=NO. gang attire, maybe. i'd go so far as to have a conservative school and a liberal school. behavior is the key, not appearance.


I agree with what you are saying. Personally I'm usually oblivious to how others look. But my mind tends to think ahead talking about a subject like this and ponder what ifs.

What if a kid just wanted to wear a speedo to school.



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22 Aug 2017, 9:27 pm

No way!



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22 Aug 2017, 9:32 pm

a speedo might be problematic, especially with adolescents. long hair and gang attire are at the edge of suitability for school.



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23 Aug 2017, 4:50 am

Voilent left wing groups, law and order backlash and now fighting over hair length
I feel I am in the movie "Groundhog Day" with 1968 repeating over and over again.


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23 Aug 2017, 6:41 am

"Long-haired freaky people need not apply"



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23 Aug 2017, 7:00 am

Blatant gang attire should be banned.

I'm surprised about the long hair. I would have been more concerned about buzz cuts.



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23 Aug 2017, 9:32 am

parents worry their kids will become homosexual



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23 Aug 2017, 9:50 am

Schools here don't allow t-shirts that have tobacco,alcohol,drugs or sexual messages.They used to have a hair policy,you couldn't have hair dyed an unusual color.My daughter flaunted this by dying her hair pink on the last day of school.
Back in the day when I went you couldn't wear shorts or tank tops.
My son wore his hair to school bundled in little tassels one day,the teachers threw a hissy fit and threatened to quit.Im serious.They said he was distracting students.It was silly,I saw kids wearing hair like this when I was in school.The only difference was he was wearing a Black hair style in a predominantly white school.


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23 Aug 2017, 12:25 pm

EzraS wrote:
"Long-haired freaky people need not apply"



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24 Aug 2017, 1:42 am

so I tucked my hair up under my hat, and I went in to ask him why.
he said "you look like a fine, upstanding young man, I think you do."
so I took off my hat and said, "imagine that- ME workin' for YOU!"



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24 Aug 2017, 8:58 am

Not surprised by this since I live in Texas. The rednecks here tend to think long hair is "kaweer" (How they prounce 'queer') and makes you a hippie.



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25 Aug 2017, 2:03 am

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Not surprised by this since I live in Texas. The rednecks here tend to think long hair is "kaweer" (How they prounce 'queer') and makes you a hippie.

up here the rednecks have pigshave haircuts, is it like that down there still?