Persephone29 wrote:
UNTIL it happens to them or someone they love.
That isn't always true. I have often read of victims families who have testified against giving the killer the death penalty because of personal convictions. I can say this with sincerity, that if a crime against a loved one gets me to change my beliefs, then the criminal has won, he's brought me down to his level, and I do not plan to allow someone to do that. Standing firm on my beliefs despite all the hate and anger and revenge I know would be in my heart, would be something I would do for ME, not him. Killing on top of killing does not improve anything. Brutal consequences strip all of us of the ability to behave with compassionate humanity; the crackdown always goes beyond the obvious, no matter how much anyone claims it won't. It's a road I strongly believe is very destructive for a society, and innocents will get hurt if it is taken. Life in prison with no possibility of parole an keep society safe from the convicted killer.
That said, I know we all come from different places on issues like this, and despite my strong feelings on the topic and what the "best" answer is, I can respect that others won't agree and that I can be outvoted. I respect that someone whose family has been victimized can take an entirely different path than I sincerely hope I would take. None of us hold all the answers; we're all just figuring out life best we can, and who am I to say my opinions are the end all of the end all for anyone else? I'll try to sell my case, but it ends there.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).