I think this was one of the most successful Munchausen by Proxy scams ever carried out on the medical profession, law enforcement and the local community. Some parents have the desire for this specific kind attention but they just aren't intelligent or self-controlled enough to carry it out without significant physical harm to their child. Gypsy's mom had it all: pathos, charisma, calculation, manipulation and patience. And Gypsy wouldn't have even understood there was a need to push back because her mother was her world. And Gypsy was the key to everything ( charity, attention, monetary support, housing ), the mother wasn't going to allow anyone into their lives that would threaten that.
Like most teens, Gypsy went looking for friends/boyfriends her own age and probably got a view into how screwed up her life was. I'm not saying what happened was justified, I'm just not sure if Gypsy would have ever had the courage to break away without doing something drastic. If her mother had successfully paraded her in front of medical professionals, convincing them she was disabled and Gypsy never spoke out, she was afraid.
I'm sorry the mother is dead, but my sympathy is reserved for Gypsy. I don't think she's a bad person, I think she's a victim of long term mental/emotional/physical abuse, maybe even a prisoner.
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Neurocognitive exam in May 2019, diagnosed with ASD, Asperger's type in June 2019.