Something tells me you have never read the Talmud or the Torah. At least, not word for word.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talmud#Att ... the_Talmud
Fact is, every major religion has some kind of "nasty" law or ritual which is subject to criticism. However, these "nasty laws" were considered prim and proper in their time, and any improvements we see today as absurd. Your religion is no exception. Nor is mine (the law on theft in Kitab-i-Aqdas is heavily criticised, for example, although I believe it would be effective after reading Jeffery Archer's prison diary).
And anyway, you always have people trying to improve the situation. Apologists and such. Take Muslims against Sharia, for example. Or Reform Judaism. Or protestantism. It's all the same - as time progressed, people were appalled with the laws and rituals with the past, not wishing to abandon their faith, it was a simple concept of "out with the old, in with the new".
As for Zanjir Zani (cutting of the flesh) and honour killings, these are not as common as you might think. The media just tends to hype these incidents. They're mere remainants of outdated rituals and customs. Quite common in the past, disappearing with the times as people become more educated. Trust in education. And free thinking. Things will change in the next few decades. For example, until 1970, the Ibadis (3rd sect of Islam) of Oman refused any "immoral" technology into their country, such as cars! And now, Oman is a highly developed country, where alcohol is sold in a bar at their main international airport! And it's just less than 100 feet away from the airport's cabin mosque! That's just one example.
True, many Muslims are still stuck in the past. But always remember Turkey. Once the stronghold of Islamic extremism, it's now the most secular country in the middle east.
Anyway, I transformed into a Baha'i because I had problems with what you mentioned, and more. But I just didn't view these as of divine origin, I saw them as innovations, by clergy.
If there's somebody you need to truly hate for this madness, hate the clergy. Don't hate the religion, or its followers. They're all stuck in a web of tradition, just as you, sir.
And most of them aren't even aware these innovations (stoning adulterers and such) exist. Just like you aren't aware of various Talmudic laws.
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