Bullying victim hangs herself.

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I wasn't in any way implying that one should feel sorry for them. I'm saying that just because they might not get convicted, doesn't mean they aren't being punished. I was implying that those who want justice should rejoice at this.

I hate bullies. I was bullied up till age of 12 and if it weren't for moving to Montana, I might have gotten beaten up in school and taunted and harassed and maybe drive me to suicide or refusing to go to school. My mom said the school would have destroyed me. The bullying was worse by 6th grade it gave me a nervous breakdown. I used to get in fights with my bullies and my school wanted to put me in a class with violent kids. I also picked on them back and I used to get in trouble for getting into fights but it didn't stop me from defending myself.

But I don't seem to have been bullied that bad compared to lot of people here but thanks to them, it toughened me up and now I don't take crap from people and I don't trust people as much. But the bullying might have gotten worse if we didn't move. The school was better and so were the kids. Plus it was a small town we lived in so bullies stand out more and I was in special ed.

I can totally relate to this. I was bullied heavily in high school and came close to suicide a few times. It's a good thing i graduated in 98 before Columbine because i found threats of violence tended to get people to leave me alone. Case and point. After a kid tried to run me down with his truck in the school parking lot i told him if he ever tried a stunt like that again i'd pull out the .357 revolver i carried in my bag (a total lie, i don't own a gun) and shoot through his windshield. I knew he couldn't report me for that because he'd have to admit he tried hitting me with his truck. Another time i was in a math class and people were throwing batteries and other s**t at me and i guess the teacher saw it so when i stood up and said "it's a**holes like you who harass people like me and then sooner or later people like me snap and come in with a shutgun and blow you away!" She knew the point i was trying to get across so i didn't get in trouble for that. Another time i was followed home from school by a kid who wanted to cut the brakes on my car but i didn't drive that day so instead he followed the persno who did drive me home honking the horn, driving like an a**hole ,etc. that person was afraid to drop me off at my house because then the dips**t would have found out where i lived. i had to hide in the bushes a few houses down and he did see me and came back and started yelling at me. after he left i went home and called the rent a cops (subdivision has security) and they couldn't do anything about it.

I hate bullies!

I do still remember almost making a junior cry when i was a senior. He was bullying me by trying to trip me while walking behind me and had tried doing some stuff outside of school as well. i had finally had enough one day and when he was walking behind me kicking at my ankles i stopped, let him pass me, and grabbed him by the shoulder and proceeded to punch him in the back 4 or 5 times. once i stopped he said in an "I'm about to cry" voice that it didn't hurt, lol. His buddies also saw it happen too. he never bothered me after that.

I basically learned in high school that violence or the threat of violence is the only way to get people to leave you alone. narcing on them, ignoring them, reasoning with them, it all doesn't work. Parents and teachers always said ignore them, but that always made things worse. If they were verbally abusing you and you ignored them, they would start touching you or hitting you. I had a guy who would grab my ass (i'm male btw) any time i saw him and I finally had to go to the administration and threaten to file a restraining order against him and make them deal with that unless they got him off my back. I have a feeling if tasers were available back then i would have bought one, lol.

I have one that looks like a cell phone. They are very effective, just by zapping the air. Someone sees that and hears the crackle and leaves you alone- believe me on this. I have weapons but I usually do not have to use them. Just the shock of having a harmless looking female whip out something lethal like that will make someone take a step back.

That story made me feel really angry. I feel really bad for this girl being made fun of for months with no one seeming to care. This was probably one of the worst bullying stories I've ever heard (of course, there have probably been others like this one, sadly). It sounds like a really tough crowd with so many of those kids being charged for statutory rape, stalking, and assault. It sounds like she wanted to get out of an unhealthy and/or abusive relationship and the boyfriend's friends hated her for it. Even though I have no idea what this girl did to merit such bullying, I still think that, even for high school kids, it's extremely immature, toxic, and evil of people to put so much pressure on someone to not even be alive. Also, how come faculty or staff did not even bother to notice, and follow through on, a bullying situation? Did her parents ever get her to see a counselor, or even talk about this directly to them? I feel especially angry in this case because the girl just moved from a different country, having to adjust to a whole new life, and then being dealt with the worst bullying situation. I hope that those people that bullied get to spend a really good chunk of their adult lives thinking about what they did, and that the teachers who saw her getting bullied and didn't do anything about it are fired. I'm not sure if teachers could be fired for that, however, they should be at least strongly pressured to do their job. I just hate hearing stories like this.

Tomorrow, I'll be at the courthouse to see what happens. I'll let you all know if anything interesting happens.

...or not, since they have attorneys that were able to postpone everything.

The arraignment happened, but the teens weren't required to be there. Their lawyers went in their stead. Trial doesn't start until September.

Good there lives will be ruined, then they will know what it is like to live on the other side of things.

I am 18 and have Aspergers. I was bullied since elementary all through my softmore year when i changed schools and started over, basically going noticed as Ghost. when in 8th grade i stood up to a kid who f-ed with me everyday in art class, would throw my pencils, rip my books, and my teacher wouldn't do s**t no matter how many times i told her. one day the killed called me a b***h, and i punched him multiple times before grabbing the back of his head and smashing his face into his desk, then the wall. Haven't been in a streetfight since, everyone thought i was crazy because i was smiling and laughing as i beat this kids ass. and the teacher yelled at me and i just somehow found it hilarious. i know its wrong, but i think if more kids beat the f**k outta their bullies, they wouldn't have as many problems. That being said, if anyone bullies my two nephews who already have a hard life, i will probably help them beat the f*****s. i have been through bullying in the past and i have tried to commit suicide twice., i must have suddenly gotten attractive because now that i graduated its all the stupid preppy bimbos that want my dick. i mean c'mon people need to grow up.