khaoz wrote:
What is wrong with at least pretending to acknowledge the existence of people who are in front of us in the present moment and dealing with this email, voicemail and texting in private.
I don't know; why don't
you tell
me since
you brought it up? No one on this thread has stated or implied that anything is wrong with that.
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There are a whole parcel of human beings who drag out their devices and hide behind them doing these things in the presence of others specifically as a shield so they dont have to deal with what is in front of them.
Yes, there are. I remember people used to do this on the bus to university so they didn't have to listen to inane conversations about other students getting shit-faced drunk over the weekend. Do you consider that to be a problem? If not, you might want to specify which sort of instances of technology shields you actually consider to be a problem, rather than relying on this generality.
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It is not necessary to stand in the middle of the grocery aisle talking on a phone, or punching the buttons, completely oblivious to the reality of people waiting to get beyond the point the texter is standing in. It is not necessary to sit in the car at a stop light doing things on a cellular device, oblivious to everything going on around us.
No one has said or implied that any of this is necessary, so what are you even addressing with these statements? You started this thread because you found the behavior
unacceptable in some way...what does necessity have to do with it? You're right, this behavior
isn't necessary...but that doesn't in any way buttress your argument that it's unacceptable. It isn't necessary to eat peanut butter sandwiches for lunch...will you therefore complain about that, too?
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It is rude to be walking around a place of business, or in a movie theater or restaurant in the midst of humanity, engaging in personal, mindless anything.
Texting and e-mailing are mindless? Compared to passively watching a movie, which is
also a "personal" pursuit, right along with patronising restaurants?
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It is simply rude, inconsiderate and thoughtless, unless it is an emergency, which 95% of the time it is not.
Why should smart phone users think about other people's distaste for smart phone use if the former aren't preventing the latter from doing what they want to do? What do they need to consider if all they are doing is sitting somewhere and reading or tapping on their phone? If they are with other people who want their attention, sure, that's inconsiderate, but you seem to be generalizing that to all smart phone use, including people in public, alone, quietly using smart phones for reasons that
you could not possibly be aware of. You apparently think that smart phones are an inferior form of communication to in-person communication, but you've given no reason why. If technologically-aided communication is inferior, then all the nonverbal and sometimes-nonverbal people, autistic or otherwise, who rely on technological communication are communicating in an inferior fashion. Do you accept that implication of your position?
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I will say it again. People anymore just do not care. No sense of....But this is all a waste of syllables. We have dissolved into a culture of simple, self absorbed apathy.
Communicating with people suggests self-absorption to you? Also...whoa with that huge generalization. People use their smart phones more than you think they should...so we've dissolved into a culture of simple, self-absorbed apathy? People don't care...about what, exactly? I'm sure you can see the connection between those things in your mind, but the steps of reasoning from one to the other aren't at all clear to me.