4-Year-Old In Texas Sent Home For Having Long Hair

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25 Aug 2017, 8:49 am

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Not surprised by this since I live in Texas. The rednecks here tend to think long hair is "kaweer" (How they prounce 'queer') and makes you a hippie.

up here the rednecks have pigshave haircuts, is it like that down there still?


Some do. They also reek heavily of cheap beer and cigarettes. They think any alcoholic drink with a flavor and vaping is too "ethnic" despite how white people have ethnicities themselves. :roll:



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25 Aug 2017, 9:00 am

Even Anglo-Saxon Protestants have an "ethnicity."



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25 Aug 2017, 3:22 pm

The article said that students whose parents presented a letter outlining :P specific cultural or religious reasons 8O could be exempt from the hairstyle regulations

But what I do not get is isn't that :D discrimination :o , by treating students from different religions and cultures to different standards?

For example, if Native American male students are allowed to wear long hair, just because the long hair is "cultural", doesn't that 8O discriminate :cry: against male students that want long hair, that do not come from cultures that involve long hair?



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25 Aug 2017, 7:56 pm

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This looks like it's actually the story of a transsexual 4 year old. The question is, did the tiny child decide on this or does the mom prefer a female offspring?


Long hair=transsexual?


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25 Aug 2017, 9:16 pm

My solution (and this is mine, and several others that are NT.) : Military uniforms and discipline in all schools.



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25 Aug 2017, 10:31 pm

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This looks like it's actually the story of a transsexual 4 year old. The question is, did the tiny child decide on this or does the mom prefer a female offspring?


Long hair=transsexual?

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Another article said that the four year old is a Native American and long hair symbolizes strength for them

The article says he has not had his hair cut since he was born.

The article calls him "he". If he were to have identified as a girl, the article would have used "she"

Although it does bring up the question of why it matters if he is a cisgender boy or male to female transsexual. For the purpose of the appearance standard



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26 Aug 2017, 7:45 am

Sweetleaf wrote:
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This looks like it's actually the story of a transsexual 4 year old. The question is, did the tiny child decide on this or does the mom prefer a female offspring?


Long hair=transsexual?


It looked to me like he was wearing a girl's outfit. But I might be mistaken about that.



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26 Aug 2017, 8:59 am

I had short hair most of my school career.

I still managed to be a decent student.

Oh, and I wasn't a transsexual.


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26 Aug 2017, 10:15 am

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I had short hair most of my school career.

I still managed to be a decent student.

Oh, and I wasn't a transsexual.

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In 2003, UC San Diego. I got a buzz cut. And I was transsexual. 20 years old. San Diego was so homophobic. Precious lil "people" had the nerve to ask "are you a boy or a girl?". They had never heard of trans before. And of the ones that I came out to, only the ones that themselves identified as lgbt were receptive.

Someone had the nerve to tell me that"you make people uncomfortable with the way you dress!". He acted like he represented the Christian religion. He acted like he represented the human species. He acted like I was not human. He acted like precious lil "people" had moral right to never be "uncomfortable" with anything. He acted like I had no rights or emotions. Not even the right to choose my own clothes.

You "still managed to be a decent student"?

That sounds, to me, like having short hair makes it harder to be a decent student.

The homophobic responses received were emotionally disturbing.

And when I went apartment hunting, some prospective roommates and landlords acted "uncomfortable" with my wrongful appearance.

One landlord had the nerve to tell me "why did you cut your hair?"

Other prospective roommates said "that's a girl?" In that disgusted "holier than thou" judgmental arrogant tone.



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26 Aug 2017, 3:53 pm

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I had short hair most of my school career.

I still managed to be a decent student.

Oh, and I wasn't a transsexual.


Well like I said, it looked to me at the time like he was being dressed as a girl and he totally looked like a little girl to me. One of my cousins who is 2 or 3 hasn't had his first haircut either, but he looks like boy with long hair.

I have nothing against trans. My comment stemmed from another article about 4-year-old trans kids and I think 4 is a bit young for a kid to decide on their own that they are transsexual.



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26 Aug 2017, 4:59 pm

EzraS wrote:
XFilesGeek wrote:
I had short hair most of my school career.

I still managed to be a decent student.

Oh, and I wasn't a transsexual.


Well like I said, it looked to me at the time like he was being dressed as a girl and he totally looked like a little girl to me. One of my cousins who is 2 or 3 hasn't had his first haircut either, but he looks like boy with long hair.

I have nothing against trans. My comment stemmed from another article about 4-year-old trans kids and I think 4 is a bit young for a kid to decide on their own that they are transsexual.

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Four is too young?

A transsexual male said that he went to a community college class as a speaker at a Human Sexuality class.

He was 19

A student asked the trans dude how the trans dude could be confident that he wanted :oops: breast reduction surgery :heart: . The student correctly pointed out that "you're still young"

Then when I was 22 I came out as trans (2006 San Diego) to a homophobic self righteous Baptist cisgender man

He had the nerve to tell me that I did not identify as trans when I was young.

So 19 is too young and 22 is too old?

What is the correct age?

Caitlin Jenner came out as trans :lol: when she was 65



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26 Aug 2017, 6:27 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
EzraS wrote:
XFilesGeek wrote:
I had short hair most of my school career.

I still managed to be a decent student.

Oh, and I wasn't a transsexual.


Well like I said, it looked to me at the time like he was being dressed as a girl and he totally looked like a little girl to me. One of my cousins who is 2 or 3 hasn't had his first haircut either, but he looks like boy with long hair.

I have nothing against trans. My comment stemmed from another article about 4-year-old trans kids and I think 4 is a bit young for a kid to decide on their own that they are transsexual.

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Four is too young?

A transsexual male said that he went to a community college class as a speaker at a Human Sexuality class.

He was 19

A student asked the trans dude how the trans dude could be confident that he wanted :oops: breast reduction surgery :heart: . The student correctly pointed out that "you're still young"

Then when I was 22 I came out as trans (2006 San Diego) to a homophobic self righteous Baptist cisgender man

He had the nerve to tell me that I did not identify as trans when I was young.

So 19 is too young and 22 is too old?

What is the correct age?

Caitlin Jenner came out as trans :lol: when she was 65


I don't think 4 year olds reach such conclusions on their own.



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26 Aug 2017, 6:40 pm

EzraS wrote:
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This looks like it's actually the story of a transsexual 4 year old. The question is, did the tiny child decide on this or does the mom prefer a female offspring?


Long hair=transsexual?


It looked to me like he was wearing a girl's outfit. But I might be mistaken about that.


Lol if it was up to me clothing for 4 year olds would all be gender neutral :lol:...

But that aside to me it looked more like hippie clothing...so not particularly masculine or feminine. Also though article says son so I don't think this is a case of transgenderism. Though if the child expressed that he is a girl on his own for instance then I would hope his mom would support him...even if it ends up just being a phase, but could also be a sign of being transgender.


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26 Aug 2017, 10:46 pm

EzraS wrote:
shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
EzraS wrote:
XFilesGeek wrote:
I had short hair most of my school career.

I still managed to be a decent student.

Oh, and I wasn't a transsexual.


Well like I said, it looked to me at the time like he was being dressed as a girl and he totally looked like a little girl to me. One of my cousins who is 2 or 3 hasn't had his first haircut either, but he looks like boy with long hair.

I have nothing against trans. My comment stemmed from another article about 4-year-old trans kids and I think 4 is a bit young for a kid to decide on their own that they are transsexual.

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Four is too young?

A transsexual male said that he went to a community college class as a speaker at a Human Sexuality class.

He was 19

A student asked the trans dude how the trans dude could be confident that he wanted :oops: breast reduction surgery :heart: . The student correctly pointed out that "you're still young"

Then when I was 22 I came out as trans (2006 San Diego) to a homophobic self righteous Baptist cisgender man

He had the nerve to tell me that I did not identify as trans when I was young.

So 19 is too young and 22 is too old?

What is the correct age?

Caitlin Jenner came out as trans :lol: when she was 65


I don't think 4 year olds reach such conclusions on their own.

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It does not matter if four year olds know how to express that they identify as trans.

Child Protective services :skull: does not provide minors any rights in terms of LGBT.

No :oops: right :roll: to transition

No right to legal name change

No right to correct pronoun

No right to go to Gay Pride parade

The parents can tell the minor what to wear, what haircut to get, use wrong name and pronoun

Tell child off

Send child to :skull: conversion therapy :?:

CPS guarantees very few rights

My precious lil "parents" correctly pointed out that CPS does not require much except that parent provide room and board. And no physical or sex assault

My sister's friend's mom made her 12 year old children get outside jobs and pay 100 dollar monthly rent. That was 20 year ago. The mom was a teacher and the dad was an electrical engineer. They did not need the $$

That is legal

When my sister's friend's brother was 12, his mom told him he "stole" orange juice from the fridge and "lied" about it. And his punishment was that he got grounded to his room six weeks

That is legal

:mrgreen:

Over twenty years later it pains :evil: hurts me.

To think about

The parents should have been sent to jail :roll:



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26 Aug 2017, 10:51 pm

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I sure hope there is another less backwards school she can send her son to attend.


So how far should policies of this kind be relaxed do you think? What if a 4 year old decides they're a Furry and want to attend school wearing an animal costume?


Are they letting only girls attend school wearing an animal costume? If they let the girls do it, and not the boys, then it's discrimination. If girls can wear long hair to school, boys should be able to as well.



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Chronos wrote:
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I sure hope there is another less backwards school she can send her son to attend.


So how far should policies of this kind be relaxed do you think? What if a 4 year old decides they're a Furry and want to attend school wearing an animal costume?


Are they letting only girls attend school wearing an animal costume? If they let the girls do it, and not the boys, then it's discrimination. If girls can wear long hair to school, boys should be able to as well.


That is something I agree with. Dress codes and hair codes should be separate issues. I should not have combined one with the other. I think it's ridiculous that males can't wear long hair a some schools and jobs when females can. Especially since there's no restriction on a female having short hair. That's just stupid.