online "support groups" for sex deprived males

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To be honest, this whole post has got me thinking, we really need to leave the metaphorical box, which is this thread, and look at it form outsiders, since it seems direct responses are getting us nowhere but a circular loop. Look at the problem, clearly define it, then work on a way to fix it, simple. And my guess is that anyone can form prejudices and stereotypes, even victims of such; and also another guess, that the prejudices and stereotypical beliefs toward women in male (sub)cultures and individuals that resulted in all the behavior mentioned in #YesAllWomen tweets will result in new prejudices and stereotypes of men in female (sub)cultures, that pervade, and pretty soon everyone's suspicious and nobody wins, or something, I'm trying to ut this in words best I can. And this is only speculation, really.

The already have on line support groups for sex deprived males, its called porn sites.

Peoples biggest way to solve things seems to simply lock people up and throw away the key, so next time you see a lonely horny old man just arrest him before he commits any crimes.

No but really, I made a suggestion a long time ago and all i got was my head bit off for it.

Have counseling services that although nothing is guaranteed if the councilor thinks that its needed and that the patients worked hard on improving them selves then the councilors can entreat the person with comfort and a bit of sex. it will draw the desperate into counseling, and the councilors are under no obligations to put out. other then that I do not see what you can do, desperate people wont bother to go to counseling just because their feeling lonely and frustrated, they need that carrot to get them to come in. call it domestic training, women do that to their men all the time.

Men and women are just totally built different, men has a constant drive for sex, thats whats on our brains about 80% of the time. while women don't. thats why men gets so frustrated, we cant turn it off. the best we can do is get really stoned and hope it reduces that drive. which women do not seem to like or want men to do, they want them to have that drive even though it frustrates the hell out of men. to women romance is their sex, for men sex is their romance. hell when i was younger and my hormones were in full swing I was begging for sex or for that drive to go away, I was constantly getting stoned because it was driving me nuts. masturbation does not work when our hormones are in full swing. female hormones that are shared during sex brings a satisfaction masturbation could never bring. i could masturbate 3-5 times a day and it done me no good, but have sex with a woman and I felt satisfied for days. something is shared that helps bring that satisfaction, and nature built us that way. or at least thats how it felt to me, I do not know about other men but I am betting its the same for them. in my youth many times I felt like castrating my self just to get that ache to go away, it's a vary real problem for men to deal with, and to some degree it still is for me but thank goodness the ache lessons with age..

Ohh.... the "manosphere"... well, it's fuel, and it's stupid but trying to put elliot rodgers and the manosphere into the same article is just not a good idea - it's bad tact

I think it may be possible that Rodgers was hearing voices (perhaps women putting him down, just as an example). It is possible he became so paranoid and convinced that he was right about everyone else that he just genuinely believed women were evil (in his world, it might have been true).

I used to hear voices putting me down a lot and it made me extremely paranoid. If I had a predisposition to violence, I might have become violent myself (I too thought some people were evil). The thing is I didn't want to kill anyone. I never wanted to hurt anyone. I actually relate a lot to some of the thoughts he had in his manifesto (talking about me 10 years ago). The one thing that is different is his need for retribution.

I guess that's what my question. What flips that switch and turns someone into a killer? Perhaps he was a psychotic psychopath. A double whammy.

I thought this was a link to the actual website. I'm sorry but one cannot believe everything one reads in an article that was obviously written by a feminist. Alot of these things this guy said were obviously taken out of context and that is why I'm not gonna jump on the bandwagon and call this guy a misogynist; a word that has been grossly overused by feminists. The guy was deranged yes, but after reading more about him it wasn't just women he was mad at. He was mad at everyone. He was also bullied by MEN and after all, more than half of the.people he killed were MEN. Ofcourse the media loves to use racism and sexism as excuses for individuals violent actions because these are things that get black people and women respectively people all riled up and angry. This ofcourse gets good ratings but also there's the fact that the people media are almost exclusively ultra liberal. Nutjobs. I don't want to sound like I'm full of my self, but I'm extremely intelligent and I feel like I see things for what they really are. In this case, all I see is some mentally unstable fool who went and killed a bunch of people. He is no different from Lanza, Holmes, The VT killer, or the Columbine guys. Its just that one of his video taped rants included bitterness towards women and that these comments were cliped out by the media in order for them to put out the message that they wanted people to take home. To be honest, I despise the media. They are pretty much a bunch of lying scumbags.