Axeman wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Axeman wrote:
I thought these were adaptable unselfish empathic people. So these empathic normals are psychologically unable to handle a different kid? They would rather kill one in most cases then have one mess up their lives.
Human beings are complex creatures. It's possible to be a good person but be brainwashed by religious fervour to believe you have the right to judge others and tell other people what to do with their bodies and the fetus growing inside them.
That fetus is a human being too. It shouldn't be murdered because it's an inconvenience to it's parents. If that's the case why screw in the first place other then lack of self control.
I read this and see someone who has no clue why people actually end up having abortions. It is usually so much more complicated than your statement suggests. As I've pointed out on this thread, access to affordable healthcare and good information are the keys to ending abortion. This whole idea of "exercising self control" is just so completely unhelpful. I have talked with many women and learned their stories; their stories will break your heart. You have no idea. You simply have no idea.
Understand I am not and never have been a "my body my choice" type. I think elective abortion is morally wrong. But I didn't have to live a whole lot of life before I learned how incredibly complicated the situations can be. To end abortion, we have to understand and address the underlying causes and drop the inaccurately self-righteous judgement that usually comes into these conversations.
I apologize for my tone, but I find the common dialogue points to be incredibly frustrating. I can’t stand how they discount the real life experiences of women. You didn’t invent those lines; they are quite popular, but they have been seeded into our society from a misogynist viewpoint, an agenda that has no respect for women. I guess that is what makes me so angry, even though I am not one of the women any of this personally applies to. But as a mother, sister, and friend, I know what I don’t want anyone to face.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).
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