I am currently very concerned about "sink holes".
I'm not reffering to the plug holes in peoples kitchen sinks but to holes that suddenly open up in the ground & swallow whatever is above it.
I saw a documentary about it yesterday evening.
One person was in bed when their bed fell into one. They were never found.
With all the wet weather we are having (especially in the UK & Europe) sink hole occurences appear to be on the increase (according to the media).
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We, the people on the Autistic Spectrum have a choice.
We can either try to "fit in" with the rest of society, or we can be so egocentric that we can't be bothered.
I choose the actor. I observe NT's. I listen to their socializing. I practice it, so in social situations I can just emulate/mimic what is expected.
It isn't natural for me, but it enables me to "fit in".
It is VERY tiring and draining, but at least we can appear like them even though it is an act. Like being on the stage.
They can't see it is emulation, and so we are accepted.