"School Tells Boy Bullied Over My Little Pony Lunchbox.

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18 Mar 2014, 9:14 pm

...to Leave It at Home."

http://news.yahoo.com/school-tells-boy- ... 46587.html

So they just let the bullies get away with their behavior, and punish the victim? :roll:


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18 Mar 2014, 9:25 pm

I saw that article as well and I am not surprised. I remember how much I got bullied in school and the trouble I would get into. Teachers and principle said I was the center of the disruptions never mind the fact I never initiated them and mostly got trounced rather badly. Being an aspie and picked on in school go hand in hand I suppose. Just back in those days there wasn't a diagnosis (that I am aware of) and it wasn't till late last year I got diagnosed.

So yes, if the lunchbox was the cause of the disruption they took the easy way out. It is not right but most of life is not right and VERY unfair. Society wants all to conform these days. Anyone different seems to be a target and they must make you conform. :x



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18 Mar 2014, 10:30 pm

My first reaction was, "What's wrong with letting the kid have his MLP lunchbox and teaching the little sh!ts to leave him alone??" For as long as I can remember, I was deprived of my comfort/coping items on the grounds that, "People will make fun of you for it" and told, "People aren't going to change for you, so you have to change for them." It's nauseating, and I think it's about time it changed. :x


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18 Mar 2014, 11:54 pm

This is more about understanding human reactions/behavior (of "authorities" witnessing or receiving reports) about bullying.
Surprisingly enough apparently the natural inclination is to "feel" that the bullied person should -very physically- resolve the problem themselves.

I'm not saying this is right, I'm just saying that I was surprised that other people have studied this and noticed this tendency.


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19 Mar 2014, 2:23 am

Just another sad case of the majority trying to stamp out individuality, and encourage old stereotypes to flourish. I mean, come on, what's with all the stupid double standards nowadays? Everybody's cool with girls who dig Star Wars, so why can't they be cool with guys who dig My Little Pony? FFS, people need to learn some acceptance.



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19 Mar 2014, 3:07 am

what a world. in a better world at least the kid's parents would pull him out of that hellhole of a school.



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20 Mar 2014, 6:32 am

I thought kids liked MLP. My daughter's friend's boyfriend has a MLP themed and painted CAR for goodness sakes, and he's popular. And not just popular with a small group of nerds, he's a popular guy with a pretty gf who is also popular. And he drives a pink and purple car with MLP accessories. He's the one whose house they play D&D at.


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20 Mar 2014, 10:19 am

http://www.policymic.com/articles/85723 ... is-amazing
I got mocked because I had an Emergency!lunchbox.I guess because I was a girl,I could never figure out why it mattered.


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20 Mar 2014, 6:22 pm

Misslizard wrote:
http://www.policymic.com/articles/85723/a-9-year-old-was-bullied-for-his-my-little-pony-backpack-what-happened-next-is-amazing


8) Thanks for sharing this. The MLP production team is an amazing group of people.

Misslizard wrote:
I got mocked because I had an Emergency!lunchbox.I guess because I was a girl,I could never figure out why it mattered.


Guess the "double standard" does go both ways... :roll:


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21 Mar 2014, 3:19 pm

Bullies only bully so that they themselves aren't victimized for something about themselves. It is a way of distracting what they consider to be their weakness which might get them bullied onto someone else with a different or the same weakness.


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21 Mar 2014, 3:34 pm

StarCity wrote:
Bullies only bully so that they themselves aren't victimized for something about themselves. It is a way of distracting what they consider to be their weakness which might get them bullied onto someone else with a different or the same weakness.

:idea: QFT



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23 Mar 2014, 7:12 pm

And, finally:

http://news.yahoo.com/friendship-really ... 21374.html

8) /)^3^(\


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24 Mar 2014, 12:53 am

hidden legal maneuvers did this?



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24 Mar 2014, 8:13 am

This is why if I ever have kids, they are either getting home schooled, or going to a private school. Society is ignorant.



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24 Mar 2014, 10:16 am

Poor kid :(


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