Wait, I thought he was "cured" and I thought he was misdiagnosed and never had it to begin with.
I don't know if I should say she is a bad mother or not by not having her son be aware. It can be a good thing to not be aware of it. My mom let kids play with me despite that they would be mean to me because she wanted me to have friends and not be alone and learn social skills. Plus I wanted to play with them too and I wanted friends and didn't like to be alone all the time. I was always forgiving.
Also it's not uncommon for parents to over share online about their kids. It used to be back in the days they would over share with other people like their friends and with other parents or strangers, now that we have the internet, they do it online now for the whole world to see. Also doing it on Facebook, everyone can see it who are on their friends and anyone who comments on their status, their friends will see it too. I was very put off when someone shared on their facebook about their son having behavior disruptive disorder and I looked it up and was not pleased to see it was a NOS label for conduct disorder and ODD but fit in none of those categories. I don't want to be near a violent kid and then I felt so nervous all of a sudden despite I had been around this kid and he never once got violent. But man did she really have to post that? I almost never went to his party because of it and then I decided I will still go but I will just watch my kid and keep my daughter away and that's what I did. The boy minded his business and kept to himself and didn't bother anyone so I felt better.
I just see her being a typical mom so I can't say if she is bad or not. Is her son better off not knowing he is being bullied or should he learn to know when he is being bullied? Just like was I better off having fake friends or not have any at all and be a loner and be all isolated and sheltered?
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses.