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02 Aug 2016, 12:34 pm

I am neither endorsing the presenters, nor sensationalized subject matter -- just offering it for consideration.

In case society has reneged on it's end of the social contract, if that has given you the short end of the stick, through no fault or shortcoming of your own, this is an actual example of infantilization:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JyT_5P21j28



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02 Aug 2016, 12:54 pm

I'm not seeing the connections he's drawing here. It's strange but harmless. She seems capable of being an adult it's not as if she's in baby mode 24/7 and wasting away intellectually. The pedophile thing, I can't see it working the way he thinks it will, you can clearly see it's an adult woman. I'm not sexually attracted to babies, a woman masquerading as one isn't going to fool my biology into thinking she's one, so I can't see it working in reverse for a pedophile. And even if it did, well that pedophile still wouldn't be doing anything wrong.



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02 Aug 2016, 1:20 pm

Why is this even news? There are plenty of them out there. Look up AB/DL.


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10 Aug 2016, 8:56 am

TL;DR made a video about this:



Interesting. I think he presents a much more compelling argument than PJW did, enough to put me on the fence somewhat but not on the other side.



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11 Aug 2016, 10:04 pm

I have researched this erm ''fetish'' for many hours in the past because I just found it utterly absurd, I don't understand what the blue hell they draw out of playing big baby but countless otherwise normally functioning adults seem to receive great joy and power out of it, I didn't discover the fruits of the motivation and I didn't even learn anything but I tried damn it. I am a big kid still in many respects and always will be but certainly nothing tingles my tastebuds on stooping to this level of immaturity.



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12 Aug 2016, 9:05 pm

I've seen this fetish on "reality" television. It seems to involve diapers, which makes me think it's primarily a poo/pee kink. Either that, or the "baby" gets off on being humiliated. Gross, but if two people enjoy it then whatever. It's definitely a fetish, though.
Probably this discussion should be moved to the Adult forum.



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12 Aug 2016, 9:43 pm

There was young man who was into that on Dr. Phil some years ago.

He was dragged onto the show by his attractive fiance who hoped that the doctor could persuade him to "tone it down a little bit" for her benifit. Understandable desire considering how she not only had to spoon feed him while he was in a high chair, but also had to....yes...change his diapers.

Dr. Phil and the guy himself peruaded her that he couldnt possibly ever "tone it down". And she opted to leave him.

But the show kept tabs on him for a while.Like six months later they checked in on him, and found that he had found a prospective sugar daddy to go alone with his fetish. Dont know whats happened since.

I guess that it is, in effect, a poo-poo fetish. But I guess its harmless if you're into it with the other person.Seems a bit unsanitary though.

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14 Aug 2016, 1:05 am

^The girlfriend also broke up with him^


People in the AB/DL community thought he was selfish because of how he treated his girlfriend. He obviously wanted to be a baby all the time than sometimes and there was no give and take. I mean if he can't handle his adult life so he has to be a baby when he isn't working, he does need professional help if he can't handle being an adult and having adult responsibilities. I would think there was more going on than just ABDL if that were the case.


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14 Aug 2016, 1:51 am

I think people who engage in AB/DL or even those interested in such things are weird as hell (no offense League_Girl) but I think calling them pedophiles is a bit much, your video OP is largely offensive and insinuates that transgender people are predators. Also I missed the connection between adult babies and transgender people. I am of the opinion of live and let live, I find it odd and I wouldn't do it but you know I am pretty sure some people don't like what I engage in either. If they don't hurt anyone then people can piss themselves all day long as role playing or getting off to it and I don't know that I care.

In fact I agree with League_Girl, why is this news? If anything this thread belongs in PPR but I would prefer the trash bin to be honest.



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14 Aug 2016, 10:49 am

DancingCorpse wrote:
I have researched this erm ''fetish'' for many hours in the past because I just found it utterly absurd, I don't understand what the blue hell they draw out of playing big baby but countless otherwise normally functioning adults seem to receive great joy and power out of it, I didn't discover the fruits of the motivation and I didn't even learn anything but I tried damn it. I am a big kid still in many respects and always will be but certainly nothing tingles my tastebuds on stooping to this level of immaturity.

You can't make sense of fetishes. They defy all logic. They're entirely emotion based and you either have them or you don't. You don't have any control over what you're into and what you aren't.



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23 Aug 2016, 5:58 pm

dcj123 wrote:
I think people who engage in AB/DL or even those interested in such things are weird as hell (no offense League_Girl) but I think calling them pedophiles is a bit much, your video OP is largely offensive and insinuates that transgender people are predators. Also I missed the connection between adult babies and transgender people. I am of the opinion of live and let live, I find it odd and I wouldn't do it but you know I am pretty sure some people don't like what I engage in either. If they don't hurt anyone then people can piss themselves all day long as role playing or getting off to it and I don't know that I care.

In fact I agree with League_Girl, why is this news? If anything this thread belongs in PPR but I would prefer the trash bin to be honest.



Where are you getting the transgender part from?


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