Autistic banned from graduation for threating online remarks

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08 Jun 2017, 2:27 am

Student with autism banned from graduation for social media post

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An eighth grader was banned from graduation because of his posts on social media.

Jake Hoffman has autism and goes to Park View School in northwest suburban Morton Grove. He claims he was recently bullied on a class trip.

Hoffman was suspended after posting statements on social media about stabbing fellow classmates. He admitted his comments were out of line, but said the punishment was extreme.

"I deserve this graduation. I should have walked down the halls. My friends felt sad. They were posting Snapchats, tweets and everything about it. And I should walk down that hall, I deserve this graduation," Hoffman said.


Based on what I have read I agree with the district on this one. Those were not inappropriate posts, they were threating ones. The student deserves his diploma, he earned it, and with that diploma he is graduated. The ceremony is not a right. I agree it was probably something done without thinking by a kid that will likely not be repeated. But he should accept his final middle school lesson that there are consequences for mistakes. Hopefully in high school bullying will be dealt with better by all involved and he will enjoy a lovely high school graduation ceremony.


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08 Jun 2017, 6:56 am

This is especially true because online threats, with some frequency, are actually carried out.

In the interest of safety, one should never think of online threats of this nature as being merely "idle threats."

I hope it's "lesson learned" for this lad....and that it's not used against him later, especially if he cleans up his act.



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11 Jun 2017, 12:19 am

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A student with autism has been excluded from his high school’s main graduation ceremony, but members of the community are rallying to make sure his separate ceremony is not a quiet affair. Caleb Maler, 19, is getting his diploma at a ceremony two hours before the main event at Grants Pass High School. The school was concerned that possible behavioral outbursts might be disruptive. The teen’s father expressed disappointment that only three people beyond immediate family had committed to attending the separate graduation. But a big crowd is now expected after a friend of the family posted about the situation on Facebook. Grants Pass principal Ryan Thompson said there are actually two special ceremonies before the regular ceremony Friday night. He declined to provide details, but said singling out students has been done in the past, for medical and behavioral reasons.


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11 Jun 2017, 8:41 pm

its just a stupid ceremony. give the kid a piece of paper, that's all it's worth anyways.

i admire the school district's idealism; trying color within the lines AND please two opposing sides. haha