Women 'better than men at disguising autism symptoms'

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Anyone who is capable of looking like they're having a good time while they actually feel miserable is capable of hiding the common signs of autism -- women are no exception.

No, it is because women's problems are often discounted as woman's issues. Nothing here really, just move along.

I think it doesn't matter if they can or not. What difference does eye contact make if the eyes never make it "up here?" Or does that count?

^ I'm not at all sure what you mean .

I've seen advice to leave your social camouflaging at home when pursuing a diagnosis.

Maybe women are better at social camouflaging but maybe they might be less inclined to drop the social camouflaging ?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/everydayas ... craft/amp/

I read somewhere that it was due to the different way males and females are raised in this culture. Females exhibiting signs of ASD look more 'normal' than males exhibiting identically.

If a girl isn't normal, she can be classed as a bit weird, but she is still a girl and therefore still on the market/table/in the cooking pot.


Men are afforded no such excuse.

Just one of the many generalizations I don't fit.

There's been a lot of talk about this on this forum, hasn't there?

One thing that might make things appear this way could be that the diagnosis criteria is set in a way that it'll fit a stereotypical autistic man, but that autism often shows itself differently on women and so professionals and other people have harder time noticing it.

Then there are also cultural things; if a man is a quiet bookworm since young age, people are more likely to think that something is wrong or that he's weird than they would if it was a woman who was that way, especially in old fashioned cultures where a woman must be seen but not heard.

Another thing is that there is the phrase "boys are boys", so when a boy does something socially unacceptable, it can get swept under the rug by claiming that boys are meant to be rebellious, but if a girl does something similiar, she'll quickly get scolded and thus learns at younger age than boys that certain things aren't okay. In other words, the people around them give them a headstart in learning social skills without realizing it. This too could especially be the case in old fashioned cultures and groups.

This idea should be taken case by case.

There are some women whose autism is as evident as some males with autism. They don’t exhibit the “female” presentation at all.

Then you have some women who, through more enhanced attention to social aspects when young by parents and others, are able to “mask” very well—perhaps better than men who have the same “degree” of autism. They do exhibit the “female” presentation.

I wonder how much attention the average parents pay to social aspects with regards to their offspring .