Autistic preschooler assaulted by teacher in classroom
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4-year-old preschooler assaulted by NJ teacher in classroom, family says
His mother is outraged and speaking out as she wonders why someone would do this to her son.
Daylan Wilkins is an adorable 4-year-old with a pair of sparkling brown eyes. But the cute child with autism was allegedly victimized in school.
The principal contacted the Department of Children and Family Services with a disturbing admission.
According to Wilkins, on March 28th, her 4-year-old son, who is nonverbal, was grabbed by his ankles by his pre-school teacher and hung upside down because he did not want to do school activity.
Another teacher inside the classroom alerted the principal of the school.
"He had frequent visits to the nurse's offices with some injuries," she said. "Some of them were explained, some of them were not. So, I began to worry."
Family members are understandably upset that the 4-year-old child was treated like a rag doll and not given the special attention a parent should expect.
The school district issued the following statement on the matter, stating: "Health and safety of our students are the highest priority for the South Orange and Maplewood School District. We are cooperating with the appropriate authorities and are unable to offer further comments due to the confidentiality applicable to student and personnel matters."
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Protesters demand answers about N.J. teacher accused of holding autistic preschooler upside-down
The Wilkins family was not notified of the incident when they arrived to pick-up the toddler that day, according to reports. Instead, the family was told about what happened more than 48 hours after the alleged incident took place. The family said they still have not heard additional information from the administration in over a month, despite making multiple requests for updates about the teacher involved and any additional discipline handed down.
The name of the teacher involved in the incident also has not been released by the district.
In a previous statement, South Orange and Maplewood superintendent Ronald Taylor said the district is “cooperating with the appropriate authorities,” but the district would not comment further due to confidentiality concerns.
During the rally Saturday, community leaders, educators and a host of supporters expressed anger and frustration over the situation, chanting “Justice for Daylan!” and “We demand transparency!” Devena Wilkins, Daylan’s mother, stood to the right of protestors, her face visibly anguished, as Daylan sat on his grandfather’s lap during the rally.
Others also are demanding answers from the school and district. Felisha George, a community organizer in South Orange, is set on getting to the bottom of the situation.
“The list of demands are simple,” George said in front of the protestors. “We want Daylan to be placed in another school, full transparency about the policy when it comes to a child being harmed and the name of the teacher to be released.”
“This type of thing has become a pattern of this school district having issues with teachers and students of color,” said TJ. Whitaker, a teacher at nearby Columbia High School. “There was a lawsuit filed regarding a teacher in the district [Nicole Dufault] for assaulting some of her students years back.”
Family members say they are taking it one day at a time.
“This has been the hardest thing we’ve had to deal with,” said Candie Wilkins, grandmother of Daylan. “At the most recent board of education meeting, we received no answers to what’s the status of the investigation. The board members just looked at us with blank stares and shook their heads.”
South Orange Village Chief of Police, Ernesto Morillo, also released a statement about the incident, calling the allegations “particularly troubling where a child may have been the victim of physical abuse. No parent should ever feel that their child is anything but safe when left in the care of faculty at any school.
“That being said, it is also important that everyone receives due process when accused of any act, especially one that may be deemed criminal,” the statement continued. “The family of the alleged victim and the public can feel confident that a thorough and complete investigation is being conducted.”
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This is not only terrible, but so strange to me. It's not that schools don't have expectations for autistic children, they do. But, the expectations are different. Frequently autistic children don't want to participate, that's not uncommon. Why not just leave him alone until he's ready?
I can only surmise that this child was in a mainstream classroom with a teacher who has absolutely no clue how to deal with an autistic kid. And, it's preschool for goodness sake. The focus in preschool is on learning how to attend (sit for instruction), potty breaks, lining up, etc... With a tiny little bit of instruction. I can't imagine that anything he 'refused' to do was going to ruin anyone's day or his chances at successful learning further on down the road. I hope the teacher is removed from the profession.
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Good the other teacher reported it to the principal. I was also mistreated by a teacher when I was 4 when I attended daycare but she never held me upside down. Thing was because she never did anything that would be seen as abuse, no one batted an eye. She just acted like I was a naughty child and treated me as such when I didn't understand. Things had to be her way and if it didn't work out, it was the kid's fault and they were punished.
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Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.
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