Oldest mother dies at 69, leaving baby orphans

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15 Jul 2009, 5:32 pm

Oldest mother, Maria Carmen del Bousada, dies at 69, leaving baby orphans

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The Spanish woman who became the world’s oldest mother at the age of 66 has died from cancer, leaving her twin sons orphaned.

Maria Carmen del Bousada was diagnosed with cancer a year after giving birth to Cristian and Pau. She died at a hospital near Cadiz on Saturday aged 69.

Her two-year-old twins will be left to the care of the family and are unlikely to retain many memories of their mother.

The Diario de Cadiz newspaper reported that Ms Bousada was diagnosed with a tumour before she gave birth at a clinic in Barcelona in December 2006.

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A former shop worker, she travelled to the US to undergo in vitro fertilisation treatment costing £30,000.

Later, she admitted that she lied to doctors about her age, saying she was only 55 to get round age limits at the Los Angeles clinic.

The birth provoked condemnation in Spain, from fertility experts and even from her own family.

“My mother would turn in her grave if she knew what my sister has done," said her brother Manuel Bousada de Lara, 73. "She would ask: ‘How are you going to bring up two boys at your age?’’

Before the birth, which was premature and by Caesarean section, she only told most of the family she had gone to America, failing to mention it was for intensive in vitro fertilisation.

The care of the twins is likely to be entrusted to a younger generation of the family, possibly the boys’ cousins, who are thought to be in their 30s or 40s.

Ricardo Bousada confirmed his sister’s death but refused to disclose the exact cause.

After the controversial birth, Ms Bousada insisted that she did not want to talk to the media to protect her sons.

But after she struck a financial deal with the News of the World, she told the newspaper: “I have always wanted to be a mother all my life, but I have never had the opportunity or met the right man.

"My mother lived to 101 years-old and I have every reason to believe longevity runs in my family."

Though she told the newspaper she felt healthy and predicted she would see her sons live into adulthood, she must have known she was suffering from a tumour.

She later told a Spanish television programme that she was suffering from cancer. It was thought she suffered from breast cancer.

Ms Bousada said the drugs used during her fertility treatment may have helped the disease spread. But she insisted she had no regrets.

The reaction in Spain to the birth was generally hostile. On cartoon in the Spanish daily El Mundo showed a mother pushing a Zimmer frame while her child asks for dinner.

Today the news of Ms Bousada’s death provoked much reaction in Spain where the family is a strong institution.

One anonymous reader wrote to El Mundo saying: “This woman for her own ego and lack of common sense did not think that these two children would have to defend themselves very soon. I hope they do not suffer the consequences of such an irresponsible decision.”

Another said: “Most women live to 80. It wasn’t likely she was going to live to see her sons over the age of about 13. It is barbarous what she has done.”

The oldest woman to have given birth is believed to be Omkari Panwar, from India, who had a twin boy and girl in July 2009. She claimed to be 70, although she had no birth certificate.

Britain's oldest mother is Elizabeth Adeney, from Lindgate in Suffolk, who gave birth to a son in May at the age of 66.


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15 Jul 2009, 5:48 pm

Wow poor kids. You have to wonder what she was think before she died. I hope she left them some money to help raise the boys.



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15 Jul 2009, 7:34 pm

:lol:

If any one of us went out of our way to go to a different country and managed to save 30k .. lied to a bunch of doctors successfully and forged a bunch of papers/where poked and prodded while having cancer/took drugs that we knew where bad for us/and gave birth to twins ... I'd suggest we get a medal.

Catholics are chaotic. Its probably where her family came from... but she did what she felt was right - as far as bad things go.. giving birth to 2 harmless boys isn't very harmful...

Poor kids? *cough* ... They have a good story to tell their first girlfriends - it may even get them laid.



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15 Jul 2009, 9:21 pm

Nim wrote:
If any one of us went out of our way to go to a different country and managed to save 30k .. lied to a bunch of doctors successfully and forged a bunch of papers/where poked and prodded while having cancer/took drugs that we knew where bad for us/and gave birth to twins ... I'd suggest we get a medal.


She sold her house to raise the money. And the cancer part seems to be a bit disputed between articles; some say she had it when she got the treament, some said shortly after (just as some articles are saying she's 69, some 70. It shouldn't be that hard to check, but I suppose people don't like doing that kind of thing). As for the the lying to the doctors, yeah, she got it over on them; research apparently wasn't on their agenda either, I suppose.

I'd suggest common sense, but yes, she was good at getting what she wanted.

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Catholics are chaotic. Its probably where her family came from... but she did what she felt was right - as far as bad things go.. giving birth to 2 harmless boys isn't very harmful...

Poor kids? *cough* ... They have a good story to tell their first girlfriends - it may even get them laid.


I don't get what you were saying about being Catholic. It tends to be a religion that encourages having children, yes, but I doubt you'd find too many priests who agree with what she did, especially since it involved lying - sin there. Not sure how Catholic equals chaotic though.

Personally, whatever you think of her decision, it is unfortunate for the children that she died. Even if they don't remember her much (if at all), she'll still have been their mother, and she'll still have died before they really got to have a relationship with her. And I'm sure that teenage girls get really turned on by the idea of dead mothers. Real party starter there.


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16 Jul 2009, 10:02 am

My parents think she's rather cruel, she did that for the glamour and her own selfish desires (which might not be too far off). They're wondering what people will tell those kids when they're older :roll: Or if they'll end up in an orphanage -.- .



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19 Jul 2009, 8:11 am

and THAT is why people in their 60's shouldn't give birth. Nature gives us the menopause for a reason y'know...


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19 Jul 2009, 10:21 am

Jellybean wrote:
and THAT is why people in their 60's shouldn't give birth. Nature gives us the menopause for a reason y'know...


Couldn't agree more.