I never did get a driver's license, but I have a Master's Degree in English. My kindergarten teacher said, because of a difference, never specified by anyone throughout my school career (but which I strongly suspect to be Asperger's), I would never learn English. (My first language was German). A year later, I was reading at fifth grade level. By sixth grade, I had vocabulary scores near college level. I received an award for outstanding achievement in English at my high school graduation and had a 3.6 average overall, my best performance in any year. I have an Associate's, Bachelor's and Master's in English. So much for that teacher's prediction!
What would have happened if an English boy's parents were told, "Well, Roger isn't like the other boys. He is too studious, not good at sports and way too serious. He has a problem we can't understand. He will probably be a good student, but will never do anything great athletically or get married." History showed that a man named Roger Bannister did it ALL! He broke the four minute mile, became a doctor and has been married to his wife, Moyra, for over 50 years. His biography shows strong indications of AS.
I hang on to Bannister's story for inspiration. He was considered different all of his life, but achieved greatness.