Feel that you will never get a gf or a bf?

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I always feel like I will be isolated. I feel like an icicle is growing over my chest in my ribcage. I know no feeling of love, only hatred.

^^^woah thats a few strong words there

I think I'll be single for a while the last time I went out with someone was in year 8 and that lasted a week. He was a complete arse and liked my friend more and didn't hestitate to tell me that.

I've been single since last February, though, I'm kind of glad the relationship I had ended.
I do think if I make the effort I'll eventually get a boyfriend, whether that's next week or the next decade .
EMZ=]

renabella wrote:

everyone!

I admit I thought precisely the same thing about a year ago.
However then I met my first boyfriend.
And trust me, the difficulty is getting started.
Now I find it very easy to get guys to like me and I am far less awkward about making moves etc.
The general case is that if you hang out a lot with a girl (I am directing this at guys here, because I feel that it is likely they are in the majority) just be friendly and then kiss them randomly at some point.
And I highly doubt they would do anything but kiss back.
Because they would be flattered! ^_^ >>



Sorry but I disagree with this. I tried this and it failed spectacularly. We fell out in fact and she despises me for it. Haven't seen her for aaaaaages and if I ever do see her again it won't be a pleasant experience.

unfortunately for me the only girl friend i ever had (in words) was a psycho and just got me to say yes and then 10 seconds later was like i'm breaking up with you and I was like fine whatever i didn't care in the first place but that was in the 7th grade and everyones immature like that then. but recently the only girl i ever connected with and stuff that wasn't in my family is taken. So if i had any emotional need to ruin a good friendship I would probably wait for her to break up with her boy friend and ask her out and then it would all go down hill but idk maybe thats just me

well lets see im 0 for like 8 w/girls... maybe im just playin with girls above my leauge...(yes i generally ask out more socially accepted people then myself)... idk i just cant figure out this s**t... i mean who knows what others think... i am what i am... but i wish i could just do like what they do in the movies... come up with those insanly good pickup lines and girls actually fall for em... maybe idk

I can barely make friends. And the friends that I DO make always end up hurting me. I really want a boyfriend, but nobody's willing to try to get around my "quirks" D:

I've had gfs in the past, but im worried I'll never have a long term relationship and find someone to settle down and have children with. I've never been with anyone for more then 3 months and usually everytime someone else shows intrest in them I get given the boot and a false explanation as to why i get dumped. It makes it very difficult for me to trust anyone when I get given a chance (which is rare) the same process then happens all over again. And all the genuinely decent girls I seem to meet are either already taken or will never give me a chance.

Makes me wonder why I even bother sometimes.

I've never been with someone who I'd consider to be a girlfriend. I've had a couple of short term flings but that would be it. There is someone who likes me and I also have a soft spot for her but she's so far away that it'll probably never happen.

I have three brothers and all three have long term girlfriends, one is even getting married next week. So at this stage I'm not very confident I'll get anywhere in that area.

I Feel that way I am to shy and uncomfortable around girls.Yet I am attracted to them.Also slightly cause I am overweight.

Girls: don't worry, you will eventually find someone who finds your quirks "cute" or can look past them.
If you are shy like me, just remember the key is smiles and small talk. You don't have to be outgoing.

Finding a boyfriend is one thing, finding a decent one is another.

I mentioned the wedding above, well at the end of the night when everyone was out dancing it hit me like a ton of bricks. I was the only one in the family who was alone and it really upset me so I went to bed earlier than the rest, though it was 2am at that stage so I wasn't the only one to sleep. The feeling has stuck with me since, I really thought I had learned to deal with being alone but I haven't. It's like my aspie and NT sides are clashing with each other; part of me wants to be in love while the other wants me to lock myself away from the outside world.