Do you often worry that you're annoying someone?

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same. I'm undiagnosed too, but I know I have Asperger's for many reasons. Pretty much no one believes me when I suggest I have it... mostly because I have decent eye contact and I understand sarcasm and jokes most of the time- or at least I pretend to.
And I agree. No knows what goes on in my head and no one understands all the problems I've had to overcome since I was younger. So I feel like I probably couldn't get a diagnosis with Asperger's if I wanted to because my symptoms now are a lot more mild than they were before.

I feel like I annoy people frequently!

All the time, I worry that I'm annoying the few people that I enjoy having conversations with, mostly by having more conversations with them then what I *think* is normal.

More like worrying that I'm offending people alot...

All the bloody time. I rarely initiate social interaction any-more, because I fear that I'm annoying them.

I don't realise that I have been annoying until I leave and then I worry

Only if it is the person who signs my employee evaluation.

I am pretty sure I annoy a lot of people. I annoy my best friends sometimes, but they deal with it. People talk to me rudely though, I purpose annoy for as long as possible. A lot of people are nice to me though so I figure I must be doing something right. lol

Sometimes I worry that I do, but I've taught myself not to be annoying. Before saying something, I think about whether or not it actually contributes to the conversation, or whether or not the other person cares about what I am saying. When in doubt if something contributes to the conversation, don't say it.

Creating the same "To get diagnosed or not to get diagnosed?" discussion in five different forums here hardly seems like you are being very successful at not being annoying.

This.

All the time! I just have this gut feeling that I'm worrying or annoying someone, and then they say "You're not annoying me. Don't worry about it." I feel relieved, but guilty that I was worrying that I thought I was annoying someone.

Hey now, most of us have been bullied in real life, the last thing we need is to go on to a place of support and get bullied. I posted my question in multiple forums so I could get advice from a wide range of people because most people only check a couple of forums. This way I could get the best and most advice. Why do you care where I posted my question? And how do you know which forums I posted it in? If you found every forum I posted in that means you must have been checking every single forum.

It rarely crosses my mind, honestly. I've asked my dad a few times if I'm annoying him when I start rambling about something he probably doesn't care about, like a scientific discovery or a video game, but otherwise I can't really tell if I'm annoying someone and I guess "talk at" people more than I talk to them sometimes.

I worry a lot, I avoid talking to people in case they don't want to be bothered or aren't interested in anything I have to say. And even when I do talk to people, I feel like I've said the wrong thing every so often.