Wait Until Married?

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To me, it's pretty irrelevant. I identify as asexual. I tend to view the whole idea as icky.

Marrige to me is stupid chuch weddings especially-it's just a spendorama useless-and for what, why should I have to wait for some judge to declare us married in the eyes of the government or some church to tell us were married
if she's ready I'm ready I'm not gonna go into marrage a virgin

Life is short and you only get limited opportunities. It would be better to have some experience before marriage anyway, if you were so inclined.

Not for any ideology, anyways. I don't think that sex is - or even should be - that big of a deal. I can't marry until at least 2 years - preferably 3 - into a relationship, and I would prefer to actually know the person.
My first priority in these matters concerns stability. To marry during a so called "crush" would be foolish, and it would be more prudent to understand one's partner on a sexual level as well as on any other level, than to simply ignore it, mainly in order to develop so called "companionship".

The prospects of a "first month-divorce" attract me not.


P.S: And as for ceremonies; I am asocial; I am cheap; and I am non-religious. Do the math. D.S.