Is this normal? (female-related)

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Jkid
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12 Dec 2008, 1:24 pm

It's actually perfectly normal to have something that you can't have, either temporary or permanently. I know that I want to have a job, but I can't able to get one, even though I'm on the brink of student poverty. The same thing for video games systems I would want to have but can't (PS3, Xbox 360)

Coco
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29 Dec 2008, 7:55 pm

Doomcookie wrote:

This is just something that's been bothering me for a long time now, and I'm really sick of keeping it to myself.

I'm a huge nerd, mostly about gaming. I'm also the weird person, who stacks completely unrelated foods, wears mishmashes of clothes, and changes their personality from day to day. The creepy person who stares at you in class and looks you up on the Internet. I only talk when talked too, but somehow manage to make people laugh constantly.

In general, I'm just a nerdy-weirdo.

Having a complete lack of social skills and having just made my first friend two months ago, the fact that I can't stop thinking about girls in general is bad enough.

But what's really worse, is the fact that the ones I can't stop thinking about are the ones that I'd never be able to have, even if I did have social skills. The only girls I can actually see myself ever having are ones just as nerdy as me, but those aren't the ones I think about. The ones I can't stop thinking about are, if you must give them some clique-type label, (I don't like using cliques and labels) would be "emo."

Is it normal to want that which you could never have? I don't understand why I like "emo" girls, but I do, and I can't stand it! I made one whom is in my Communications Technologies class burst out laughing when she saw a shot in my video for our scavenger hunt assignment. (it was a close shot of this kid I'm always creepy too, while his back was turned, for 6 seconds) It made me happy, but I really am unhappy that it made me happy!

Yes it's normal (at least i think it is)

sethzack
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30 Dec 2008, 5:32 am

Wow for the beginning of that I felt like you were describing me until you got to not being attracted to nerdy girls. Now I also don't like labels but I'm particular about what I call myself, I refer to myself as a geek instead of nerd or at least used to until aspie described me even better. (seriously I have been looking up more about asperger's than time spent playing my video games)

I am very much attracted to geeky girls and gamer girls and nerdy girls because I want to be with someone like myself but the only girl I found in my area like me I could never ask out, I did manage to get her phone number but never called her. She probably thought I was a jerk, not long after that she changed jobs and I never saw her again. (we met at work)

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Coco
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30 Dec 2008, 10:46 am

sethzack wrote:

(we met at work)

awwww u must b heart broken.

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30 Dec 2008, 2:31 pm

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

(we met at work)

awwww u must b heart broken.

I was but the past is history, the future is a mystery, and the present is a gift.

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30 Dec 2008, 3:34 pm

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

(we met at work)

awwww u must b heart broken.

I was but the past is history, the future is a mystery, and the persent is a gift.

OK.

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30 Dec 2008, 10:05 pm

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

(we met at work)

awwww u must b heart broken.

I was but the past is history, the future is a mystery, and the persent is a gift.

OK.

Whoops, I misspelled present. I fixed it now, I don't always check for spelling errors so I make quite a few of them.

Coco
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31 Dec 2008, 2:27 pm

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

(we met at work)

awwww u must b heart broken.

I was but the past is history, the future is a mystery, and the persent is a gift.

OK.

Whoops, I misspelled present. I fixed it now, I don't always check for spelling errors so I make quite a few of them.

that's OK that's U misspelled something I do the same.

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31 Dec 2008, 2:38 pm

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

(we met at work)

awwww u must b heart broken.

I was but the past is history, the future is a mystery, and the persent is a gift.

OK.

Whoops, I misspelled present. I fixed it now, I don't always check for spelling errors so I make quite a few of them.

that's OK that's U misspelled something I do the same.

I am still looking for someone that understands me and accepts me for who I am, a relationship that lasted for more than a few hours would be great. lol

Coco
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31 Dec 2008, 2:48 pm

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

sethzack wrote:

(we met at work)

awwww u must b heart broken.

I was but the past is history, the future is a mystery, and the persent is a gift.

OK.

Whoops, I misspelled present. I fixed it now, I don't always check for spelling errors so I make quite a few of them.

that's OK that's U misspelled something I do the same.

I am still looking for someone that understands me and accepts me for who I am, a relationship that lasted for more than a few hours would be great. lol

So am I.

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31 Dec 2008, 2:50 pm

Unless we go to an AS meeting or group we aren't going to have much luck finding anyone.

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31 Dec 2008, 3:29 pm

True.

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01 Jan 2009, 12:04 am

Coco wrote:

True.

If there aren't any such groups in our area then we should start our own! I will google AS groups/meetings in Alaska!

Coco
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01 Jan 2009, 4:08 pm

sethzack wrote:

Coco wrote:

True.

If there aren't any such groups in our area then we should start our own! I will google AS groups/meetings in Alaska!

That's a geat idea!! !

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29 Jan 2009, 8:05 pm

This is a quote that sums it all up

"A woman remembers the men she had, a man, the women he couldn't."

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06 Feb 2009, 7:19 pm

Doomcookie wrote:

Is it normal to want that which you could never have?

Very, very, very, VERY normal, I assure you :wink:

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