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21 Jan 2009, 6:10 am

When I finally get a job and move out of my parents house I'll probably live alone. A lot of people my age live with house mates but because I'm not that good with people I'll probably not do that.
I do want to have a life partner, because I really like being close to someone, but I don't expect me to find a mate for some time.
I love living with pets now, especially my dog.



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21 Jan 2009, 8:14 am

I had my own place and lived on my own when I was 16. I didn't have any problems with being independent. Though I didn't really have a choice.



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21 Jan 2009, 9:38 pm

I don't know. To some degree, living alone and being able to do my own thing, uninterrupted, would be great. Some things would be alot less stressful for me. I also know that, in some ways, I'm hard to live with and someone who's considerably less tolerant than my family (like a roommate) would be likely to argue with me. Alot.
But I'm also intimidated by the idea of living alone. While things like living and undertaking responsibilities by my own scheduel would be a relief, other things would give me great anxiety. I think I'd at least need an animal for some kind of companionship.


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22 Jan 2009, 11:52 am

I'd rather have my own place, but still have relationships. I like being on my own, but I don't wanna be single forever either.

I MIGHT get married, but partly so I get to wear a designer wedding dress like Carrie wears in the Sex and the City movie, LOL. Marriage would probably be hard on me, though, cos living with someone else would be kinda annoying.

I ain't ever having kids. My life is my own.


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24 Jan 2009, 9:17 pm

I don't really want to live alone. I want someone near me, a love, or good friends, just someone.



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29 Jan 2009, 8:01 pm

I will probably live alone, and even though I am an introvert, I still need love, but love does not exist.


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30 Jan 2009, 12:10 am

Lets see, Hermit with Webcam, Internet Connection, Wi-Fi, and TV with Wii.
An odd way of being one, but being without contact for so long could drive one batty, and with the News Channel, I could keep up to date while living in a furnished hut/cavern.


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30 Jan 2009, 12:51 pm

I'd probably live alone for the first few years. I'd like to flat share with a few close friends, that would be cool.
And I'd love to live with a boyfriend (I don't want to get married)


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30 Jan 2009, 12:51 pm

I too don't want kids, that's for sure. I'll leave the business for everyone else xD.
I also don't want to get married, mainly because I'm atheist and it just seems stupid, and it just seems insecure for a couple to REQUIRE that sort of clarification...
I would like to live with someone right now, but IDK, sometimes I just want to be on my own...
I'll probably end up either living on my own and just having friends I talk to once a week or so, or have a partner I REALLY like, and would enjoy being with as opposed to being alone. I've had boyfriend before, and I did indeed prefer to spend time with him over everything else. Maybe if I met someone like that again, then I wouldn't mind living with them.
I definitely would need a lot of time on my own, even if it is someone I really like.
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30 Jan 2009, 4:58 pm

I hope so. Independence & privacy are top priorities for me.



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30 Jan 2009, 7:54 pm

Just curious did any one consider the effects of AS on your prospective partner. Is it typical of as to enjoy watching the agony of another or is another's pain uncomfortable.



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06 Feb 2009, 5:49 pm

Well.. since I'm allergic to some pets I feel that my computers takes that place. They are not as soft, though, but I like them. They do what I tell them to, most of the time.

If I had the possibility to choose whether to live alone or live together with a partner, I would choose a partner, without a doubt, however... I rather live alone and feel "pretty happy" than feeling miserable or extremely unhappy. I'm an introvert and do feel that I can live with myself.

To be able to grow with a partner instead of just growing together with oneself would be more interesting for me. Much more interesting. Being part of internet communitys do make me feel that "I'm not alone out there". I feel that it makes me able to communicate more effectively also. Maybe it takes away some empty space which would otherwise be spent on closer relationsships or real relationsships, depending on what word one would choose for this.


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