Feel that you will never get a gf or a bf?

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I was always too oblivious to figure out that girls liked me. If by chance I did figure it out i'd wait to long and they would lose intrest in me. I don't ever really wonder why im alone though. I think to myself "would i date me if i was a girl" and the usuall thought is " H-ll No you way to creepy". So i am content with the way things are.

I've officially given up on finding a bf.

I no longer see the point in getting a gf at my age.

Something tells me a guy with 0 friends and absolutely no social life is hopeless to find a girl who sees past that. Maybe I'm wrong.

i think getting a gf is such a burden

hey
dont give up...just because you are an aspy doesnt mean that you cant get a gf your own age. i found my bf in the mast unlikely place.. a support group for young people with aspeger.

Keep smiling and never give up

i feel like that cause i never talk to people unless i am spoken to directly and cause i'd think the boy was making fun of me or wasn't serious about it if i was asked out.

I feel like I will probably never get a boyfriend. Or at least in my teen years. I don't have the traits that boys my age seem to like in girls (blonde hair, skinny etc.) Interestingly enough, most boys my age aren't really attractive to me either. I tend to find older guys more attractive.

I'm interested in a girl at the moment but am so self-conscious right now. I keep thinking she'll notice my non-existent social life and be scared away but so far she's still in touch with me.

But yes I've regularly felt like I'll die alone.

Yeah I feel like this too although I have been on dates, I feel like I never have a serious boyfriend.

I'm never going to get another girlfriend/boyfriend. I have the social ability of a six year old. And I don't do long distance relationships so the internet is not an option for me.

Believe me, guys who are only attracted to such superficial things aren't worth it.

Blonde hair's kinda gross too. There's a few people that can pull it off, but the majority of people with blonde hair have gross hair. And don't get me started on how gross women with no meat are. Visible ribcage = not sexy.

I quite agree about older men being attractive too.

I haven't had a gf yet, and I may or may not ever have one. But to be honest I am quite fine with that. I guess if I wasn't I would actually try to get one. Right now it just isn't that important to me.

I'd like to have a boyfriend at some point, and I'm sure I will, but just not at this moment.

It's not that great, honestly.
I prefer my imaginary relationships So much less complicated, and you can fast forward to the best bits.
And think through ex.ac.tly what to do at each step. If only real life had a slow button!

It seems my outlook is a common one shared by a number of others here. I'm powerfully unattractive, can't so much as start a conversation with a girl, have no social skill to speak of. I just don't feel there's any point in me trying, since it'll just be another crushing failure in the end like most other things I try. So I just sit here, resigned to the fate of dying alone like so many others.

Buddy, buddy, buddy, don't be so hard on yourself!! !

First off, relationships are a pain in the ass.
Secondly, "so much as start a conversation with a girl" Dude, all you have to do is say "Hi" to someone, and maybe ask a question about wherever you are (eg: if she's/you're in school, ask her about her last test mark, or how she's liking whatever book you're reading in English class.) Ok, I'll admit I'm no Hugh Hefner, and a lot of the time, that stuff won't work, but a lot of the time, it will
Last, but not least: "since it'll be another crushing failure" It very well could be, hell at our age, most relationships are! LOL. One day, and I hate to spit out cliches, but, here goes... , you may find a girl for you, perhaps even a fellow Aspie!

I may be able to help you with some of this stuff, if you like you can PM me, or if you just simply want to get to know me.