Feel that you will never get a gf or a bf?

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because of how honest i am and sensitive and a good listener most girls are easily able to trust me and i get so close to a few that most people think we dating even though we arent but because of my gift i have with girls i have become very adept at being girls Straight Gay Best Friend, all my female friends say that i would be an amazing boyfriend and the girl who dates me would be lucky, but because the nature of most my friendships with girls i get way too far into friend zone WAY too fast though because of the nature of my friendships i usually have more control over my female friends bodies than most other guys, even a couple of their boyfriends so its not a complete loss, but because how things end up between me and girls im VERY undateable because the whole Straight Gay Best Friend situation because none of them want to date me because i am practically invaluable to them as a friend when i get real close so im worried i will never get a girlfriend cuz of that

and tbh i have never even been loved romantically, sure me and a couple friends have had a few "moments" usually only kissing and touching nothing past that, but it was never actual romance its just because girls can easily trust and they let me do stuff like that

my situation is good and bad but mainly good


*NOTE: Lexi is 13, and she is my smoking buddy with cannabis


i am the only guy my best friend Lexi treats like her female friends(she is bisexual) so we have our moments with hot and heavy stuff but its no different than with her female friends though and she dont wanna date me cuz she dont date virgins and it dont help that Lexi's older brother Zack is one of my best friends, me and him gonna become blood brothers soon even

i have recently accepted the fact that im not dating material, only friend material albeit friend with benefits material so its not that bad but still i always feel like im missing something inside me because i have never actually been romantically loved by a girl

Sorry, it just funny to me that she's 13 and she doesn't want to date you cuz ur a virgin, shouldn't see be one?
Where have this world been going to

That pretty much expresses what I'd want from a relationship. Shame the chances of me getting any kind of romantic relationship are approximately zero. But we can all dream, hmm?

I thought that I'd never have a boyfriend....ever! My disabilities made me think that way, plus I was more than a little nerdy. I didn't like doing typical things like going to discos etc but when I was 15 I met my boyfriend who I happened to have a lot in common with and we were childhood friends that lost contact when we were 5. I've been going out with him for 2 years and 8 months now and never been happier. It just shows, everyone has a good shot at being in a relationship, you just have to wait.

Make sure if you do date someone they are comfortable with your disabilities and will comfort you if you need it in public. Make sure they have your interests too! It will also be a lot of work lol, fights/dealing with their dramas (most NT's love drama).

I can write what people tell me are masterpieces, I can do calculus in my head, I am physically faster than most people in my school. But still, the hardest part of my life is trying to talk to someone when you know the first words out of your mouth will ruin it forever. The hardest thing I have ever done is say hello. It's almost funny.

know what you mean bout just saying "hello"

I've already posted in this thread several months ago saying I don't care at this age, which is true; however, I do wonder if I will be in a relationship and get married/have kids in the future. Sometimes I want to, and sometimes I don't. There are advantages and disadvantages to both options, and I'm glad I still have at least five or six years to figure it out.

“One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter.”-James Earl Jones

Yup, me too. Yeah, I don't think it's going to happen, at least not anytime soon.

And saying hello is the hardest thing to say. I'd find it easier to walk up to someone and tell them to procreate with themself.

“Speak low, if you speak love.”-William Shakespeare
For all of my talents and skills I should owe to asperger's, in order to get the one thing I want, maybe need, most; I need the one thing I don't have, and don't have the means to acquire... and I can thank my asperger's for that also. Talking should not be as hard as we make it seem. I cannot for the life of me figure out why I cannot talk to people, it seems so trivial in theory, but in practice, saying hello really is the single most challenging thing I have ever done.

I don't see myself having luck w/ relationships anytime soon. There is a girl that has shown some interest (I think) and I kinda like her, but FB says shes taken. I thought she might like me but... I just have no chance at figuring any of this out, and in that lies the answer, I'm screwed... I will still hold out some hope though... Maybe

Time to replay Ridin Solo by Jason Derulo!

sigh... it all sucks
I went to this youth program my church does in summer (US, Mexico, Germany, etc) they got it held I went to the one closest to be in Tacoma, WA
It was good, I even told my group that I got AS, they were welcoming of me.. I was soooo glad
Friday night which was the last night at efy, I got a text from a girl in group named Alina "Hello it's Alina " we text for 3 days after that... I knew by the 2nd day we'll stop talking.. I just knew deep down everything will stop... the 3rd day came and I thought I was wrong.. cuz we text from 5pm-9pm and I started convo this time.. but then tired texting the next day, no reply, waited 2 days tired again and still nothing... it been 3weeks now... we haven't even said hi

i personally don't believe i will ever be in another relationship in my life. I suppose im just too analytical or philosophical but the modern view of dating and courtship absolutely disgusts me. I see people in relationships all the time and it is usually just based off of meaningless, on the surface, kind of things. Not to say genuine people aren't out there, but they are few and far between and somehow a persons wallet has become a huge factor in whether or not they will find "love". It seems to me that courtship has become less about expressing yourselves to one another in order to gauge compatibility, and more about playing these stupid social games. I refuse to play games when it comes to something as serious as being with someone. I stopped playing the games and suddenly all female attention stopped coming my way. I just don't have it in me to engage in the trivial contests of masculinity that us males are expected to win in order to gain female attention, and if that means being alone for the rest of my life so be it. I know there are genuine girls out there, but i know you don't meet them through the silly social games that determine most relationships.

I feel exactly the same.

That day gaming becomes mainstream I will become more popular I think

I would become like one who is great at footballs or soccer!