Ever had a friend not want to be a friend anymore ?

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07 Aug 2010, 1:00 pm

Yep, from someone who I was great friends with from kindergarten up until 5th grade. It was mostly because she always wanted to control every aspect of my life, and I usually refused to let her. Hence, she became annoyed with me and cut off all connections. I'm rather happy about it, because she was a pain to deal with anyhow.


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07 Aug 2010, 4:35 pm

Its happened to me over something stupid that I'd say.



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08 Aug 2010, 12:03 pm

Definitely and the worst one of all was the three people that I was once friends with and they just didn't want anything to do with me because apparently I'm black. :(

This only happened only 3 weeks ago.

The other two had just turned against me due to the other guy somehow manipulating me and somehow got him to listen to crap that he told them and they seemed to have believed it and it was only because the guy that was doing wasn't having his way.

I gotten really depressed about it for weeks and weeks even now I kind of feel like crap about the whole senario and they all removed me on facebook without me knowing and I would end up checking anyways and they did treat me like crap, so personally they're just a waste of complete time.


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25 Aug 2010, 3:22 pm

I've had many experiences with people who call me, "friend", then go behind my back and make fun of me. Some of my "friends" in elementary school said I was "stupid", but now I at least have a few relationships in which I find solace. (I love big, difficult, and complicated words.)



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25 Aug 2010, 3:25 pm

I had an NT friend who got married and had 2 kids and became envious of my success with what I was doing. You see, his situation wasn't panning out like he wanted it to and he saw my successes as a threat, like I was having a better time then he was, which I was. He became a saboteur and started to eat away at my entrepaneurship. It was I that got rid of him.

Was I ever envious of his marriage and kids? No, sorry. You see, I never wanted to get married to anyone and I don't want kids either.

My situation now is climbing slowly higher while with 2 kids and a wife, he has been downgraded in his job and gets less wages then what he had.

And some say that marriage and kids makes life more worth living! Pah, I spit on that notion.



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11 Oct 2010, 2:39 pm

Yes! There was this girl that I met in Grade 2 and I was a bit of an impulsive, immature 7 year old and a bit her. I apologized to her right after. The next year, we were in the same class and became friends. Same with the next year. In Grade 5, we were put in different classes, we were still friends, but not as close. In grade 6, we were in different classes, yet, AGAIN! We were still friends though. Same goes for Grade 7 (sort of). In Grade 8 however, we just stopped being friends. I have her on Facebook and she never messages me or even comments on my posts. We are in the same math class and don't talk. I don't think she is mad at me, I think she just doesn't want to be friends anymore.



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01 Nov 2010, 4:23 pm

Unfortunately yes. My friend suddenly discovered (after years of trying to deny it) that he was 'unpopular' and that he no longer wanted to hang out with 'freaks and ret*ds'. Other friends have ditched me frustrated because they couldn't understand that I wasn't purposely being rude by not always understanding why they were upset or angry with me or forgetting to do stuff like turn up for birthday parties.
It made me upset at first obviously but i'm really not bothered now. I have good friends now who actually accept me for who I am :D