Being bullied

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all of my schools have had the policy of blame everyone for anything s nothing really got out of hand but ive met my fair share of bullying tools but i always managed to ignore them

the worst was a guy who fr months sat next to me and enjoyed continuously whispering "you have no friends" (looking back i think i had more friends than him) the one time i even reacted was when one day he started bagging my friends .... i garbed him by the neck and pined him to a wall and with considerable effort didn't hit him



its the little victories that count

Some of us oldtimers ain't the fighters we used to be.

In the latter 2-3 years I was being bullied by a group of NT girls in my class. I was trying to offend them, as they do, but it was no use. Thank God, forthcoming year (9th) new students will arrive at my school and new classes will be structured, leaving a few autochtons.

But this year I have bought combat boots and changed my appearance because I'm really into Gothic and Industrial subcultures. I am worried it will be the same, only they'll taunt me because of my looks.

So what do you think? Should I dress whatever I want, or should I try to look like others, despite my hate to conformists?

Yes, I have been bullied. Not very much Physically...except for the time I was pushed down a bunch of stone steps in fourth grade and then laughed at. I'm lucky I didn't break my nose.
No, people know I can and will fight back if pushed far enough.

The emotional and verbal abuse I still get stings.

When I was in primary I was called 'The Gross Girl' I don't know what was so gross about me.

In fourth grade a group of girls tortured me everyday in front of the teacher. The teachers never did a thing. They told me I should learn to handle it better.

In fifth grade I thought I had two really good "friends forever." It was a good year, though I recall a painful incident where I was made fun of for not having a Grandmother.

By sixth grade one began to slowly disown me while the other simply drifted away from me. I was picked on for liking cats and anime some as well.

In seventh some older girl made fun of me by calling me 'autistic'. I did not know I had Asperger's. The friend who disowns me did nothing, despite earlier telling me she'd risk her life for me. That was the last day I ever called myself her friend. She put me through a lot that year.

In 8th I get made fun of every day by random different people. I've had used napkins thrown at me, people yelling in my ears, telling people who are sitting beside them that I scare them because I was crying during a disturbing part in a movie, the list goes on forever. I've even had the way I sharpen my pencil made fun of. People laugh and point at me as I sit alone at lunch.

I threatened suicide just to see what the people making fun of me would do. Almost everyone in the room joined together makig fun of me, saying things like "Oh is that a threat!?" and "If you do you'll go to Hell." These things were said in very mean tones of voice. The two or three people not making fun of me said nothing. That was just this week.

I'm lonlier and sadder than I've ever been and yet, this may only be the start.

This board was good for getting some things off my chest. Thanks for making it.

These dolts on the computer keeps harassing and mocking me because of asperger.

When I noticed I was starting to get bullied, I kinda bullied the other guy twice as hard... Not a good way to solve things, but yeah... Works..?

I've been bullied all through nusery> primary> even today at high school (5th year now), and I really hate it. I try to ignore it and very rarely lose it, and when I do I never use physical violence, though I usually end up mouthing them. History class last year was the worst ever since my teacher was a wuss who was too scared to do anything about the neds, which I guess makes the teacher a bully... Its hard to cope with.

at every school i went to i copped it from a few popular kids and not so popular ones. The only educational place i did not cop any of that is my TAFE that i attend part time. (full of peoples that have better things to do then pick on peoples cos of whatever stupid reason)

Whenever i got bullied it was mostly for my quirks, they would call me a ret*d constantly. I remember my mum complaining to the school about it in primary school and nothing was done. I think i tattled on this one bully about 20 times. But apparently he is in prison now accordingly to Mum. karma biting him in the butt. haha!

my stories are tame compared to others, it sucks that there are so many evil peoples in this world it does.
has anyone copped it from the group of popular girls that always sit around and gossip about peoples? i remember coping it from a group like that once or twice too. really sucks.

Bullying has been a part of my life, even though I'm still 19. Everytime I'm in a group or doing something, I always have to be the odd fellow, because I don't follow the norms like others do. What can I say, it's just me. God made me that way. Oh man, I have to go , I'll tell more stuff later.

Just wear some cool sun glasses, some big boots and a trench coat and nobody will even think about bullying you.

Honestly, I've been bullied very, very, little. So little that I could say "never" and it would probably be 99% true.

In fourth grade there was this one kid who made fun of me a bit, really nothing major... I was never beaten up or anything.

He was the shortest kid in the grade, even smaller than most kindergarteners. And I was by far the tallest and most physically mature, looking about 13 when I was only 9 or 10, so I have always believed he was simply jealous. He said a few things on into sixth grade, including "you're fat" (which I'm not - I had a BMI of 16 back then) and "your boobs are so big people in China can see them".

This kid clearly has some form of dwarfism and wasn't liked by anyone, so as the one least like him I was probably the best target for his insults. But I had better snarky comebacks, and after two years of his annoying me, the teachers noticed and punished him.

He hasn't spoken to me or looked me in the eye since. And he's still tiny and has no friends. Happy ending for me!

I've almost never been bullied, in my very young years when I first started school I used to pick fights with kids that would pick on me, and they kept at it, and it made me feel kind of important actually because they seemed so opposed to me, later I just didn't give them any attention and they left me alone very fast, I havn't been picked on in the slightest throughout highschool, maybe by friends just kidding around.

Sadly those like us are the most targeted. A pain I know all to well.

Bleh. I got it a fair bit in primary school. One kid who was a bit older used to push me into the urinals, I started hiding in a cubicle all lunchtime so he wouldn't find me. Other kids in my class picked on me for whatever reasons. I did have an obsession with cars to the point of running round the playgrounds being a car until about age 11, so it was easy to have a reason to be picked on. Teachers helped a bit but it never really stopped and I was afraid to defend myself.

In intermediate I got it a bit but most of it was just bitching from hormone-ridden girls.

Since I started high school I've slowly got more confident and now I'm nearly 17 I'm actually being a bit aggressive when people give me a hard time. I've come close to getting in fights a few times and I've started simple exercises to make me a little more muscular. I think standing up for myself has been good because people generally leave me alone now.

One of the worst bullies I had is still around, but he's a total loser. He's skinny, a gamer, and drives his mother's car past the school gates after school trying to show off. He ran me down once when I was walking home a few months ago, I'm hoping he does it again so I have an excuse to prove I'm not a wimp anymore