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28 May 2015, 8:59 pm

I don't know how this is true in any way; they only get fooled into having there virginity stolen by some player 3-4 years older than them. Like really? You call yourself mature when the only thing you can do is being a d*ckbag and making the guys your age deprivated from pleasure? Gg. Sorry if this turned into a rant, but I had to tell my feelings.


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28 May 2015, 9:08 pm

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Why do girls say they're "more mature"?
So that they can justify to themselves and others their desire to date, mate, and marry older men.



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28 May 2015, 9:16 pm

Girls are generally known to mature earlier then boys but when it comes to levels of maturity
that depends on the individuals really.



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28 May 2015, 9:43 pm

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Girls are generally known to mature earlier then boys but when it comes to levels of maturity that depends on the individuals really.
I've been confronted by this "Women mature earlier than men" claim frequently.

I call bullsnot, because being reproductively capable at an earlier age than males as the de facto sign of maturity hardly rates as being significant, since it involves no effort on the female's part, but only genetic programming and environmental conditions (i.e., diet, medication, health, et cetera).

To me, "maturity" is more of an emotional and intellectual accomplishment. To achieve independence from friends (especially boyfriends), family (especially brothers, fathers, and husbands), support networks (especially social cliques), start careers and achieve financial stability before becoming parents, and meet financial obligations (mortgages, business overdrafts) on their own (without help from daddy or hubby) -- in short, to accept personal responsibilities is more of an indicator of real maturity. If women mature so much more quickly than men, then why are so many women so eager to find a "Sugar Daddy" who will pay their bills and provide financial support, yet look down upon any man of the same age who is looking for a "Sugar Mama" to do the same for them?

Surely the acceptance of personal responsibility for one's own actions - without blaming others for one's own mistakes - is a more worthy assessment of "maturity" than merely achieving reproductive capability at an earlier age?



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28 May 2015, 9:54 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Girls are generally known to mature earlier then boys but when it comes to levels of maturity that depends on the individuals really.
I've been confronted by this "Women mature earlier than men" claim frequently.

I call bullsnot, because being reproductively capable at an earlier age than males as the de facto sign of maturity hardly rates as being significant, since it involves no effort on the female's part, but only genetic programming and environmental conditions (i.e., diet, medication, health, et cetera).

To me, "maturity" is more of an emotional and intellectual accomplishment. To achieve independence from friends (especially boyfriends), family (especially brothers, fathers, and husbands), support networks (especially social cliques), start careers and achieve financial stability before becoming parents, and meet financial obligations (mortgages, business overdrafts) on their own (without help from daddy or hubby) -- in short, to accept personal responsibilities is more of an indicator of real maturity. If women mature so much more quickly than men, then why are so many women so eager to find a "Sugar Daddy" who will pay their bills and provide financial support, yet look down upon any man of the same age who is looking for a "Sugar Mama" to do the same for them?

Surely the acceptance of personal responsibility for one's own actions - without blaming others for one's own mistakes - is a more worthy assessment of "maturity" than merely achieving reproductive capability at an earlier age?


Ok, so biologically, by nature, women tend to mature faster. By bs standards and maxims that society pumps out that have no basis in the natural order men mature faster. Happy now?



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28 May 2015, 10:03 pm

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sorrowfairiewhisper wrote:
Girls are generally known to mature earlier then boys but when it comes to levels of maturity that depends on the individuals really.
I've been confronted by this "Women mature earlier than men" claim frequently.

I call bullsnot, because being reproductively capable at an earlier age than males as the de facto sign of maturity hardly rates as being significant, since it involves no effort on the female's part, but only genetic programming and environmental conditions (i.e., diet, medication, health, et cetera).

To me, "maturity" is more of an emotional and intellectual accomplishment. To achieve independence from friends (especially boyfriends), family (especially brothers, fathers, and husbands), support networks (especially social cliques), start careers and achieve financial stability before becoming parents, and meet financial obligations (mortgages, business overdrafts) on their own (without help from daddy or hubby) -- in short, to accept personal responsibilities is more of an indicator of real maturity. If women mature so much more quickly than men, then why are so many women so eager to find a "Sugar Daddy" who will pay their bills and provide financial support, yet look down upon any man of the same age who is looking for a "Sugar Mama" to do the same for them?

Surely the acceptance of personal responsibility for one's own actions - without blaming others for one's own mistakes - is a more worthy assessment of "maturity" than merely achieving reproductive capability at an earlier age?
Ok, so biologically, by nature, women tend to mature faster. By bs standards and maxims that society pumps out that have no basis in the natural order men mature faster. Happy now?
No. It is more correct to say that males and females mature at about the same overall rate, given individual variances in the rates of emotional, intellectual, physical, and spiritual development, especially when genetic and environmental factors are taken into account.

Again, it seems that when girls say that they are more mature than boys their age, they are really trying desperately to justify to themselves and others their desire to date, mate, and marry older men.



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28 May 2015, 10:38 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I don't know how this is true in any way; they only get fooled into having there virginity stolen by some player 3-4 years older than them. Like really? You call yourself mature when the only thing you can do is being a d*ckbag and making the guys your age deprivated from pleasure? Gg. Sorry if this turned into a rant, but I had to tell my feelings.


So your ticked off because girls your age won't sleep with you/guys your age? Right, very mature.



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28 May 2015, 10:47 pm

Logston wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I don't know how this is true in any way; they only get fooled into having there virginity stolen by some player 3-4 years older than them. Like really? You call yourself mature when the only thing you can do is being a d*ckbag and making the guys your age deprivated from pleasure? Gg. Sorry if this turned into a rant, but I had to tell my feelings.
So your ticked off because girls your age won't sleep with you/guys your age? Right, very mature.
For 14 years old, surprisingly mature!



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29 May 2015, 4:53 am

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DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I don't know how this is true in any way; they only get fooled into having there virginity stolen by some player 3-4 years older than them. Like really? You call yourself mature when the only thing you can do is being a d*ckbag and making the guys your age deprivated from pleasure? Gg. Sorry if this turned into a rant, but I had to tell my feelings.
So your ticked off because girls your age won't sleep with you/guys your age? Right, very mature.
For 14 years old, surprisingly mature!
Was this sarcastic?


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29 May 2015, 6:08 am

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Logston wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I don't know how this is true in any way; they only get fooled into having there virginity stolen by some player 3-4 years older than them. Like really? You call yourself mature when the only thing you can do is being a d*ckbag and making the guys your age deprivated from pleasure? Gg. Sorry if this turned into a rant, but I had to tell my feelings.
So your ticked off because girls your age won't sleep with you/guys your age? Right, very mature.
For 14 years old, surprisingly mature!
Was this sarcastic?
No. You seem educated, articulate, and able to discern the differences between reality and fallacy.



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29 May 2015, 6:27 am

Fnord wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Logston wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I don't know how this is true in any way; they only get fooled into having there virginity stolen by some player 3-4 years older than them. Like really? You call yourself mature when the only thing you can do is being a d*ckbag and making the guys your age deprivated from pleasure? Gg. Sorry if this turned into a rant, but I had to tell my feelings.
So your ticked off because girls your age won't sleep with you/guys your age? Right, very mature.
For 14 years old, surprisingly mature!
Was this sarcastic?
No. You seem educated, articulate, and able to discern the differences between reality and fallacy.

Example?


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29 May 2015, 6:32 am

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
Logston wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I don't know how this is true in any way; they only get fooled into having there virginity stolen by some player 3-4 years older than them. Like really? You call yourself mature when the only thing you can do is being a d*ckbag and making the guys your age deprivated from pleasure? Gg. Sorry if this turned into a rant, but I had to tell my feelings.
So your ticked off because girls your age won't sleep with you/guys your age? Right, very mature.
For 14 years old, surprisingly mature!
Was this sarcastic?
No. You seem educated, articulate, and able to discern the differences between reality and fallacy.
Example?
General impression / opinion. You could take it as a compliment.



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29 May 2015, 6:37 pm

Anyways, why can't we just be assigned to one person at birth? The love would develop with age and everyone would be happy. I don't wanna have to target these dumb 12 year olds...


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29 May 2015, 7:06 pm

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Anyways, why can't we just be assigned to one person at birth? The love would develop with age and everyone would be happy. I don't wanna have to target these dumb 12 year olds...
What if that one person dies before marriageable (or even dateable) age?

Dating younger/older people is not a bad thing, unless only one of the people is a legal adult, then that whole "Statutory Rape" thing kicks in ...



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29 May 2015, 7:12 pm

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Anyways, why can't we just be assigned to one person at birth? The love would develop with age and everyone would be happy. I don't wanna have to target these dumb 12 year olds...
What if that one person dies before marriageable (or even dateable) age?

Dating younger/older people is not a bad thing, unless only one of the people is a legal adult, then that whole "Statutory Rape" thing kicks in ...

When I see all the posts on facebook of girls I used to think were pretty and innocent being "in couple" with "handsome" 16-17 year olds just because they're stronger I just want to rip the guys insides with steel claws and throw his corpse under a train.


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29 May 2015, 7:17 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Fnord wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Anyways, why can't we just be assigned to one person at birth? The love would develop with age and everyone would be happy. I don't wanna have to target these dumb 12 year olds...
What if that one person dies before marriageable (or even dateable) age? Dating younger/older people is not a bad thing, unless only one of the people is a legal adult, then that whole "Statutory Rape" thing kicks in ...
When I see all the posts on facebook of girls I used to think were pretty and innocent being "in couple" with "handsome" 16-17 year olds just because they're stronger I just want to rip the guys insides with steel claws and throw his corpse under a train.
But, why?

If their relationship is all about vanity and shallowness, the why should it make you feel such hatred?