Besty Problems

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Does anyone that has one care to share stories about some of the difficulties faced in their relationship with their best friend and how they have over come these difficulties?

Really? Over one hundred views and no reply? I mean I know that alot of people on here will have difficulty making a bf, but surely someone does.

i don't have a best friend, as in one person, i have a group of good friends. the worst problem is probably hanging out after school, because of my low profile (i keep myself hidden and reluctant) and i once got annoyed because one of my friends was being a hypocrite, worst thing is that i (still have) a crush on one of my good friends, and never told her, and she switched schools (because of her bad grades) before i could tell her.

Unfortunately ALL my best 'friends' have abandoned me at some point, all because they fell in with the popular crowd. Except my ex(yes, he was my best friend), he cheated, but that's another story. I mean, I don't have a problem with them hanging around with other people but they cut all contact with me, basically, like, they just stopped talking to me. I didn't overcome them.
My group of friends changed, they all want to be popular but just don't fit with them, so they're acting like popular people do, and making them think they're popular. When I say popular I mean the popular group, not that everyone knows them, or likes them(most think they're b*****s and stuff), but just the popular kids. I don't know if that makes sense, but yeah.
Currently I don't have a best friend, I think.
The only thing I can say is with my ex we started going out again and became best friends again, but that only works in few situations. Also, I don't really think it resolved anything, because we went out about 5 times and the longest they all lasted was 2 months(first time lasted at least a year and a half).
Yeah, don't know if anything I said helped, but, thought I'd post anyway xD.
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