Me Vs. The World: Dealing with my 'friends'

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CountDVB
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12 Jan 2011, 5:30 am

As of recently, the one forum I worked to make sure my friends they have found and now spammed. Which leads me to I CAN'T TAKE IT FROM THEM ANYMORE! I suppose they aren't the worst of people though. They are without compassion though. Essentially, that's how I view many of my peers though. Most I grew up with and I haven't forgiven how they treated me as a kid. Others are either born jerks or were similar to they are. In this way, I feel that surrounded by them, I began losing my own kindness. And so now as I near graduation and I wonder how to deal with college people.



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12 Jan 2011, 5:42 pm

One of the good things about college is that you'll have more chances to meet people with common interests than you did in high school and connecting with people over things they are passionate about seems to work well for aspies.

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time right now--hang in there.



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12 Jan 2011, 5:43 pm

College is a completely different environment. I found it infinitely better than high school. It wasn't a walk in the park, but my peers seemed to be more compassionate. It was good to get away to a new environment, find more suitable friends ...(or in my case make friends).. the environment will be different. I hope you meet some real friends that value you.