i am a loner and im sad :(

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hi,
I have very little friends as I never get invited anywhere, maybe only catching up with the same 2 people once a month. I have never been on a date or to a party or to a sleepover and I am really sad!! !
I am also openly gay, having been out for a year.

cheers

You don't say how old you are, but you could try getting involved in some things in the gay community. Just volunteer. You'll meet people, make friends. There are help lines for teens and adults, and you can ask what you can do to volunteer and also explain that you want to make friends - stress that you are looking for friends and people to talk to and hang out and go places with, not a relationship or a hookup.

i am 15 for your information!

cheers

You're young. Your whole life's ahead of you. I'm confident you'll meet someone.

You're 15 FFS -- God meant you to be miserable at that age (I certainly was, and don't know of anyone who wasn't). You have the whole of your life ahead of you, so don't feel down. And soon you'll be able to go out socialising in pubs and bars (if you aren't already, illegally). So chin up, old thing, and meanwhile beware of dirty old men on the internet who might try to take advantage of your youth and beauty <whistles innocently to himself>

I'm sorry you're feeling miserable right now, Heath. It does get better if you hang in there. We promise. There is hope. Don't think there isn't.

So I liked OliveOilMom's suggestion of volunteering. That's something you can definitely do as a 15 year-old.

Are you out to your parents? If so, perhaps ask their advice for suggestions. They know you better than we do.

Also, get a job as early as you can. Preferably in a restaurant setting. Money is always nice to have and the gay:straight ratio seemed to be fairly high in food service (at least it was in my 6-7 years' experience. Your mileage may vary, of course.)

You should not add your name to your posts. It may come back and haunt you very badly, in the future, for whatever reason the bullies make up as a reason. You should ask a moderator to edit this out from all posts you have done this in.

I'm sorry you're feeling so bad. :/ Not that it helps, but I also am very lonely and unhappy. -_- See, I even have Mokocchi as my avatar! That should say a lot about me. :P