I hate my husband so much. So, so much. He's such a bad husband. So mean. Aggressive. Emotionally abusive. 100% of his life is about sex, if he can't have it daily on deman he traumatizes me and any child who might be home at the time because he doesn't edit himself or care if they're here, he says everything is always MY fault, he says "well you MADE me do it", I can't take it, I cannot take it. My God. Every single day. Every. Day. I can't even describe it accurately. I can't go into specifics. I dont' even want specific replies addressing any specifci part of this, though empathy/sympathy/rage on my behalf is more than welcome, I just can't even pick this apart any further right now or I will implode. I just. Can't. He makes me overload until I'm actually stammering and stuttering and go mute.
I can't DO this. I can't DO this every day. Dammit now he's made me cry and he isn't even here. I hate when overload leads to tears because I get all congested and can't breathe. Ugh my life is an emotional horror story. Why did both of my parents have to die before I knew how to be an adult? Why am I completely alone except him and the kids, who arent' old enough to help me, and besides I'm supposed to be helping them, but couldn't do it right all these years, and the two oldest are both in separate rehabs for serious addiction problems and won't be here for thanksgiving and my brother died beore last thanksgiving and i'm going to be alone with my husband and daughter and I CAN"T DO THIS.
And the dishwasher broke.
I'm supposed to be taking my daughter and her best friend WITH my husband to a concert almost 2 hours awya tonight and I'm already overloaded so much I'm in tears.
I don't know what to do.
I'm so tired of being alone among so many people. I don't want to always have nobody to talk to about anything and suck it up because that's what moms do. I just want one friend. But nobody can handle me because I'm all wrong.
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( Living in Parentheses ) - female aspie, diagnosed at 42 ~
BAP: 132 aloof, 121 rigid, 84 pragmatic // Cambridge Face Memory Test: 62% // AQ: 39