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29 Mar 2024, 10:21 pm

And now I am going to impulsively remember this moment and have to hit myself to forget it


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29 Mar 2024, 11:24 pm

I certainly have moments/memories where I feel like that. It sucks. I try to tell myself that I’m not an idiot and that we all have our moments. It helps sometimes.


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30 Mar 2024, 8:47 am

I'm an idiot to but I'm not gonna torture myself about it


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30 Mar 2024, 9:33 am

Are you okay, honeytoast?



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30 Mar 2024, 10:19 am

Yeah are you OK honeytoast


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31 Mar 2024, 8:15 am

we're all in this together, many of us understand!
Hope you are doing OK now.
Its OK to give yourself some slack when you have troubles, nobody has to be perfect... we are all human.


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31 Mar 2024, 10:42 pm

Hi I’m okay.

I had too much to drink and my filter ran off. I said stupid things to strangers and now I’m still cringing about what I said and did. I feel like such a doofus. The embarrassment is not going away….


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01 Apr 2024, 3:48 am

Oh :lol:

I think most people have been in that situation. Don't worry too much. It's not permanent. It will wear off


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01 Apr 2024, 4:26 am

honeytoast wrote:
Hi I’m okay.

I had too much to drink and my filter ran off. I said stupid things to strangers and now I’m still cringing about what I said and did. I feel like such a doofus. The embarrassment is not going away….


If I posted every time I did this it would fill Wrong Planet's forums and Alex would kick me off permanantly



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01 Apr 2024, 7:31 am

cyberdad wrote:
honeytoast wrote:
Hi I’m okay.

I had too much to drink and my filter ran off. I said stupid things to strangers and now I’m still cringing about what I said and did. I feel like such a doofus. The embarrassment is not going away….


If I posted every time I did this it would fill Wrong Planet's forums and Alex would kick me off permanantly


I don't think you're actually going up to strangers/people you barely knew from interaction in real life and saying stupid s**t.

But I guess this kind of helps me to not cringe about it.


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01 Apr 2024, 8:20 am

I haven't been a drinker for many years but, when I was, I think every night of drinking made me cringe the next day. Sometimes, the line between appropriate and inappropriate can be a little blurry and alcohol doesn't make it any easier. Try not to be too hard on yourself. :wink:


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01 Apr 2024, 8:38 am

honeytoast wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
honeytoast wrote:
Hi I’m okay.

I had too much to drink and my filter ran off. I said stupid things to strangers and now I’m still cringing about what I said and did. I feel like such a doofus. The embarrassment is not going away….


If I posted every time I did this it would fill Wrong Planet's forums and Alex would kick me off permanantly


I don't think you're actually going up to strangers/people you barely knew from interaction in real life and saying stupid s**t.

But I guess this kind of helps me to not cringe about it.


I don't even need to be drunk to do that, just bored. :oops:


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01 Apr 2024, 8:46 am

I have experienced anxiety with post alcohol nights out, in the following morning.

Contemplating how embarrassing I had been the night before etc.

I think it is normal to worry about that stuff.

Hang in there, HT. :)



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01 Apr 2024, 1:57 pm

we've all had awkward moments, I have learned some of my best lessons by this method ( what not to do) . Its all OK


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01 Apr 2024, 2:12 pm

Yeah totally. I walked in on my (male) boss having a pee in the gents on a night out.

I couldn't (still can't) remember even doing it because I was so drunk but there was photographic evidence of it in the Monday morning when I got into work. :lol:

I literally walked in the office and the whole place stopped, turned to look at me and burst out laughing. I don't really feel embarrassment like some people do but it was funny.

I don't remember how someone got the photo evidence of this but it was a corker.

Just style it out kid. You'll be ok


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01 Apr 2024, 2:38 pm

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