im in the care of idiots, they can not help me in the slight

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im in the care of idiots, they can not help me in the slightests, and always make it worse

they have always condemmed me for stuff i could never have known

hyperion wrote: condemmed me for stuff i could never have known


What do you mean? What kinds of things? How could you have not known them? Are you talking about your parents? or are you in a group home or hopital situation?

my parents

like everything, it was you figure everything out on your own except when your not needed

I still don't understand exactly. I am sure that my son feels the same way concerning me! He gets upset because he doesn't understand the rules and the reasons. I try to help him understand but it doesn't work.

I still don't understand exactly. I am sure that my son feels the same way concerning me! He gets upset because he doesn't understand the rules and the reasons. I try to help him understand but it doesn't work.

no i knew the rules they were breaking them, what rules i had to raise my self,
i check every source on philosphy justice raising kids they did it all wrong.
they has also been abuse

Abuse of any kind should never be tolerated. Speak up for yourself and don't be silent about it. Tell whoever will listen and help; a teacher, a relative, a doctor. Do it A.S.A.P. By putting up with abuse you continue the cycle and the abusers think it's okay to keep doing it!

having memoriezed platos repulic at thirteen i was aquainted with rules

Well, that's very impressive but you did not address what I said. Think on it. In the case of abuse, sympathy is not enough; encouragement is needed; encouragement to do the right thing.

Hyperion, I think you just need to stop worrying about how you were raised or how they brought you up, cause it's pointless. Look to where you are now and where you want to be. Looking over The Haven, I see a lot of threads started by yourself. Mate, face it, you're perseverating over your worries. It's not healthy. I'd suggest you start examining your own perspectives on the matter before accepting them as fact. When you make it your mission to find fault and apportion blame, you're always going to find something. So your parents aren't perfect; whose parents are? But it's dominating your thinking, and you have to stop.

I, too have read a lot of your threads, hyperion, and not known what to say. But danlo's right, you are thinking about all the bad stuff far too much, how can good come of it? Most of us have done this in the past so we kind of understand. You've mentioned a few talents and skills you have, go for it and use those even more! You are not without hope and there are heaps of us that care. I am waiting for a good change to happen in your life, I'm sure it will.

im not any more, i called ddd im in the first proccess of moving out. they simply cant help me and no it did rise to the level abuse over the years not important now but i will soon be moving on

i did examin my persceptives ten thousand ways to sunday, against authoritative refferences

read them all, some of it has been recent

hyperion wrote: im not any more, they i called ddd im in the first proccess of moving out. they simply cant help me and no it rise to the level abuse over the years not important now but i will soon be moving on

Good for you! That sounds like a positive step. The more time and distance between you and an abusive past the healthier and more satisfied you'll become.

just have to pray they dont do something to interfere