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07 Mar 2018, 1:42 pm

So I should say good by. I’ve messaged who I thought if by in case I forgot some
my skype name is sly279 haleboop, kk,auntabby,fluffy have my email addresses if your someone who liked me talk to them them. I’ll try not to hurt myself but I’ll be completely alone now. Thanks to everyone here who’s been nice to me.



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07 Mar 2018, 1:45 pm

Why would you be banned?



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07 Mar 2018, 1:51 pm

Daniel89 wrote:
Why would you be banned?

If someone reports yo and mods give yiu a strike, after 3 you get permanently banned. And from what I’ve gsthered strikes don’t go away even if they were years ago. Unlike YouTube or other social medial I got a two strikes from users trying to get rid of lone men few year and year or two ago. I got banned temporarily and so this will be permanent. I shouldn’t have expressed me experiences as a loser man here. We men aren’t allowed to share our experiences cause some don’t believe belive we lying



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07 Mar 2018, 2:04 pm

sly279 wrote:
Daniel89 wrote:
Why would you be banned?

If someone reports yo and mods give yiu a strike, after 3 you get permanently banned. And from what I’ve gsthered strikes don’t go away even if they were years ago. Unlike YouTube or other social medial I got a two strikes from users trying to get rid of lone men few year and year or two ago. I got banned temporarily and so this will be permanent. I shouldn’t have expressed me experiences as a loser man here. We men aren’t allowed to share our experiences cause some don’t believe belive we lying



Did you break forum rules?


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07 Mar 2018, 2:20 pm

What'd you do that would cause you to be banned? I would think you'd have to do something wrong?



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07 Mar 2018, 2:23 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Daniel89 wrote:
Why would you be banned?

If someone reports yo and mods give yiu a strike, after 3 you get permanently banned. And from what I’ve gsthered strikes don’t go away even if they were years ago. Unlike YouTube or other social medial I got a two strikes from users trying to get rid of lone men few year and year or two ago. I got banned temporarily and so this will be permanent. I shouldn’t have expressed me experiences as a loser man here. We men aren’t allowed to share our experiences cause some don’t believe belive we lying



Did you break forum rules?

I don’t ebelive so I was using words like, some, most, a lot, in my area. Rules say not to say all women or all men do or are a way. I was told once ronuse words that clearlify I don’t mean all women. I use to get in trouble for saying women say ___
But now it seems even doing what I was told offends a person too. Seems unfair men can’t express their experiences here. Anything can offend someone. That’s why we in the us have freedom of speech. So no one feels silenced or invalidated. I’ve neber meant to apply all women are any way nor have I meant to attack all women or any women on this site. Most isn’t all. Neither isnsome or women in my area. But some here push social justice and political correctness where any opinions thst differ should be silenced. I wish my experiences weren’t as they are but they aren’t lies or fake or made up. Given time I could compiles thousands of examples and screen shots. But I’ve never done so in the past, cause to me only crazy people would document every interaction in their life for tomhave evidence later for some conversation they don’t know is going no happen.



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07 Mar 2018, 2:26 pm

,"completely alone"?

What about other autism forums?



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07 Mar 2018, 2:29 pm

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I don’t ebelive so


That's a little unfair if you have done nothing wrong.


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07 Mar 2018, 2:32 pm

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What'd you do that would cause you to be banned? I would think you'd have to do something wrong?

Sharing my experience thst most women won’t date men who don’t have their life together. It’s the most women that they are now finding offense with. I learned it’s not ok to say women won’t _____ , so I was told to use most or some etc. but now even that’s not ok it seems.

They using this rule
This should be a forum where both men and women can be comfortable trying to figure out what is going on in their lives. Generalizations along the lines of "all women are shallow" or "all men are jerks" interfere with that, and are offensive to the members of the gender mentioned. Please be careful to NOT make conclusions or statements that extend beyond your personal experience and the particular people involved.

How is saying most, a lot, or some, generalizationing all women?

I feel men can’t express or share their experiences on this site anymore unless it’s political correct to the social justice ideas that women can’t do anything wrong. So unless it’s about women are wonderful then our experiences are deemed offensive.

I’ve been rejected by thousands of women, seen thousands more say the same thing. I’m not in New York City with millions of women, so most women in my area would be thousands,. So I say most women won’t date a man without his life together. There’s women here who say yes I wouldn’t either but still others say I’m lying or making it up.

How do I share my experiences and express feelings without offending someone who says it’s fake? Makes me feel my experiences are invalid. If they right then I’m super super crazy and been living in a fantasy world, butnthsrd mesn they fake and make believe too including you.



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07 Mar 2018, 2:33 pm

shortfatbalduglyman wrote:
,"completely alone"?

What about other autism forums?

Been to others they don’t have the activity and population that we have here, wrong planet really is the only island in the ocean for us aspies. Most other sites are also for parents of aspies not aspies themselves. I be losing my friends here too :cry:



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07 Mar 2018, 2:34 pm

When the mods have something to say about your behaviour, or your signature links that logs users out :) they will generally contact you. You can contest the whole thing though so stuff isn't final.


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07 Mar 2018, 2:35 pm

SaveFerris wrote:
sly279 wrote:
I don’t ebelive so


That's a little unfair if you have done nothing wrong.

Do you find these offensive
Most men care more about looks
Most men think about sex a lot
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I dont.minfind them true even though I an not part of those most men. Why should I be offended by something I’m not?



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07 Mar 2018, 8:00 pm

sly279 wrote:
SaveFerris wrote:
sly279 wrote:
I don’t ebelive so


That's a little unfair if you have done nothing wrong.

Do you find these offensive
Most men care more about looks
Most men think about sex a lot
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I dont.minfind them true even though I an not part of those most men. Why should I be offended by something I’m not?


I don't know if those statements are true or not as the amount of men I know is such a minuscule percentage of men in the world. I don't agree with those statements but I'm not offended by them but lets say I have some trouble in real life where I am accused of being vane and care about my looks in a negative way , if I read that statement I might be offended.

I'm sure I could trawl the site and find generalizations that go unpunished but that doesn't mean they are acceptable here , it just means they were not reported and missed. It sounds like you may of upset a very vindictive person who has just stalked you waiting for you to f**k up.
I think aspie's are like elephants , they never forget , especially if they have been wronged , this is just speculation as I don't know any other aspies except for you lot here :wink:


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07 Mar 2018, 9:13 pm

Ichinin wrote:
When the mods have something to say about your behaviour, or your signature links that logs users out :) they will generally contact you. You can contest the whole thing though so stuff isn't final.
when I was temporbanned the last time there was no notification my account was locked overnight and I couldn’t log into wrong planet anymore. Not even an email from them about it. Just you’ve been banned when you try to log in. I also think strikes should only last 3-6 months so if you go 3-5 months without more yiu go back to zero. That’s how most everyone else does it. YouTube is few weeks after a strike.



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08 Mar 2018, 5:46 am

Even though I don't consider myself to be a woman a lot of the time I've still been a bit irritated by some of your comments about "most women". However, I understand that you don't mean to offend anyone and are just trying to express the troubles you've had in your life. I hope you don't get banned because you don't deserve to be!


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08 Mar 2018, 6:05 am

if you're talking about your posts in another thread to which Chronos responded implying she'd report you; she didn't report you. i can tell you that with certainty.


however, she, and other people raised good points there about making statements that extend beyond your own personal experience. we dont need mischaracterizations on WP.

please be careful, mods really REALLY do not want to be forced to ban you. i, at least, would like to see you stay. :)


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