I have been deeply hurt by others, which put me in a sorry state of mind for years.
Identifying myself as a "survivor" instead of a "victim" brought me out of that funk.
I still remember the hurt, and I still remember the people who hurt me.
The key difference is that what they did no longer defines me -- I define myself.
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The mere fact that science may not yet adequately explain an object, event, or experience does not mean the immediate explanation should automatically default to a conspiratorial, extraterrestrial, paranormal, or supernatural cause.