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SoulcakeDuck
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10 Nov 2009, 6:14 am

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10 Nov 2009, 8:04 am

Willard wrote:
How wonderful to hear that you don't have a problem.

Perhaps you were misdiagnosed.


Or perhaps I'm just one of the lucky ones, eh?

I do realise that I'm in the minority when it comes to liking changes, but that dosen't mean I am misdiagnosed...



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10 Nov 2009, 9:44 am

marshall wrote:
It isn't so much that I fear change. It's just taxing. When things are unpredictable I can't relax. It's more of an uncomfortable tension that I can't alleviate. .


This. There's a difference between fearing something and finding it stressful.


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10 Nov 2009, 1:49 pm

Who_Am_I wrote:
marshall wrote:
It isn't so much that I fear change. It's just taxing. When things are unpredictable I can't relax. It's more of an uncomfortable tension that I can't alleviate. .

This. There's a difference between fearing something and finding it stressful.

I agree with this. Change once in a while is good because it forces me to leave my boundaries. However, it's very difficult to handle. I need time to calm down and move on after a change in my routine, which sometimes can be detrimental to my academic performance.


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