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17 Nov 2009, 8:41 am

Hating everything is no way to live, if your are not happy in your little town.. you most likely would not be happy in a bigger town. Make the best of where you are, the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence.

If there are places you can volunteer your time to increase your exposer to intelligent & compassionate women (local libraries & schools always need help, also animal shelters run on a shoe string budget and need help). If you are smart and compassionate, just saying so is not going to bring women to your doorstep... your actions will define who you are in their eyes.


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17 Nov 2009, 9:03 am

Oregon wrote:
Hating everything is no way to live, if your are not happy in your little town.. you most likely would not be happy in a bigger town. Make the best of where you are, the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence.

If there are places you can volunteer your time to increase your exposer to intelligent & compassionate women (local libraries & schools always need help, also animal shelters run on a shoe string budget and need help). If you are smart and compassionate, just saying so is not going to bring women to your doorstep... your actions will define who you are in their eyes.


ummmm everyone here is either a: under the age of 15 b over 30 10 years difference sounds a little off c there isn't anything to do here. There is no theater, no volunteer work to do or anything. Trust me when I say, when I went to visit a bigger city I went wahoo and had a great time.



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17 Nov 2009, 10:01 am

I am a little older and set in my ways... I always had to learn things the hard way, so I can give some real good advice on how to screw up.. I seem to excel at that.

Yet, I'm just saying don't base your happiness on things you cannot control... and the only thing you really have control over is yourself. Find out what makes you happy, then it will be easier to find someone to share that happiness with. The volunteering suggestions were more to give your life purpose & meaning.. it's hard to be a hater when working on something that makes a difference.


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17 Nov 2009, 12:14 pm

Oregon wrote:
I am a little older and set in my ways... I always had to learn things the hard way, so I can give some real good advice on how to screw up.. I seem to excel at that.

Yet, I'm just saying don't base your happiness on things you cannot control... and the only thing you really have control over is yourself. Find out what makes you happy, then it will be easier to find someone to share that happiness with. The volunteering suggestions were more to give your life purpose & meaning.. it's hard to be a hater when working on something that makes a difference.


I know what you are saying I am just saying there aren't really any opportunites here. All my friends have moved on, gone to other places forge a name or at least a life for themselves. Thank you very much for the suggestions, trust me now when I say I really appreciate what you trying to do for me. I hope I meet more people like you as go on my journey through life. I will see what I can do based on your advice.



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10 Oct 2011, 8:49 pm

I hate aspergers! I like you I hate me



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11 Oct 2011, 3:25 pm

Quit hating yourself and everyone else. If you keep hating everything you're just gonna get meaner, and more miserable as life goes on. If you can't expect people to love you if you don't love yourself. Just try doing one thing a day that would improve your life instead of coming on the internet and complain about it. If you feel the need to vent do it in a journal or something private not on a public forum.