Sorry to all Wrong Planet Members

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Some more big cyber hugs going in your direction!

I haven't seen anything that would rub me the wrong way (I just checked some of those threads).

Friskygirl I don't think you did anything wrong.

I have been lurking on Zack's blogs for over a year, trying to decide if he is a victim or antagonizer. When I first encountered his suicide threat and the problems between the girl he loves and the rest of the world, I was very concerned about him. I realize now that everything he says is used to manipulate people and he flip-flops on everything to suit his narcissistic needs. It frightens me that he is giving 'Dear Zack' advice to autistic people on his website when he can not see his 'self'. It appalls me the thinks he can run WP better than anyone else. He has made horrendously bad choices and then blames everyone else and gets defensive to the max.

Think of emotions as a pendulum, the swing should be gentle and consistent and mostly at the base of the swing. Our lives become out of wrack when the pendulum goes too slow, too fast, out of rhythm, stuck on one side or the other or extremely high on either side of the swing. Zack's pendulum is way out of wrack. He ends up making snap decisions and statements which are contradictory and consequences are not thought out.

You really did nothing wrong.

Zach--Fix your own life first. I now realize your girlfriends mother is in the right and she is trying to protect her child. I would not want you as a son-in-law or the father of my grandchild. (sufi could be very mean at this point, but will not because of the consequences) Put the last year into the past, acknowledge your mistakes and move on.
I will no longer be following your blog.

FriskeyGirl, I can sympathize with why you see yourself as a magnet, but to the extent you cannot control that, the only wise thing to do is to let it go. When things get bad and feel you had any part, you always want to make it right, even if there isn't really any way to do so. That is the important part, that you do want to make things right. It is noticed and it makes a difference.

Just keep picking up and moving on. We all have much to learn on our personal journeys.

Yeah don't leave. You are very welcome here. ^^
*Big cyber hug*

Friskeygirl, you are one of my favourite members - OK, I have plenty of favourites, but you are always a welcome WP inhabitant. I did not read the posts you are making reference to, but no matter.

If you made a mistake (?), then just carry on.

oh this was over something I did in defense of a member here, made a small mess into a big one, wasn't my intention to draw so much attention