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17 Nov 2010, 10:22 am

People tell me all the time i'm the worst apology maker ever.
I just sound like i'm angry, or that I think i'm right, apparently.
But honestly, I don't mean it that way.
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But yeah, i'll tone it down from now on.

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17 Nov 2010, 10:29 am

nthach wrote:

I'm trying to book an appointment with an therapist ASAP. This whole dating, relationships and friendship thing is just something I'll never win. I'm not willing to date someone from a 3rd world country as some in Love and Dating advocate for. I just want some semblance of a social life and when once I feel I have worked on the basics I'll work on dating.

Why not?

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17 Nov 2010, 12:31 pm

Subotai wrote:

nthach wrote:

Why not?

I'm not willing to be some girl's b***h for a green card. And my roots are in 3rd world country. Besides, Asian girls never appealed to me, they're too meek and void of personality. I see them as a whitegood like a washing machine or a certain luxury car made by Toyota...

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18 Nov 2010, 2:27 am

nthach wrote:

but lexii are terrific! and i would not say margaret cho was devoid of personality. but i can understand your preference for first-world. i am asian myself [among others] and prefer some contrast.

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18 Nov 2010, 3:04 am

auntblabby wrote:

nthach wrote:

but lexii are terrific! and i would not say margaret cho was devoid of personality. but i can understand your preference for first-world. i am asian myself [among others] and prefer some contrast.

Of course a Lexus is awesome - so is our Samsung washing machine in the fact that it doesn't sound like a 747 taking off like our old Maytag Neptune did. But I want my partner to be human and have some personality. Not feel like a machine.

And by Asian, I refer to FOBs, or to be more politically correct foreign Asians. I have no issues with american-born ones. Heck, I have some feelings for one that was a classmate, she might not be perfect physically but me and her have things in common(and I'm thinking she's a little bit on the spectrum). I do, however have issues with stereotypical AzNs.

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18 Nov 2010, 6:33 pm

well guys, I've feel back into breakdown mode again in a week. But not because of things here, but from bad news delivered from a friend at school.

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18 Nov 2010, 6:51 pm

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And by Asian, I refer to FOBs, or to be more politically correct foreign Asians. I have no issues with american-born ones.

Hey, we fobs don't like you ABCs either, so the feeling's mutual. :thumleft:

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18 Nov 2010, 7:03 pm

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Hey, we fobs don't like you ABCs either, so the feeling's mutual. :thumleft:

you're a FOB??? you continue to fascinate me!

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18 Nov 2010, 7:07 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

menintights wrote:

Hey, we fobs don't like you ABCs either, so the feeling's mutual. :thumleft:

you're a FOB??? you continue to fascinate me!

hey, I was born in the US!

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18 Nov 2010, 7:18 pm

nthach wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

menintights wrote:

Hey, we fobs don't like you ABCs either, so the feeling's mutual. :thumleft:

you're a FOB??? you continue to fascinate me!

hey, I was born in the US!

i know - that's why she called you an ABC right?

i was talking to menintights about my fascination with her. menintights is an enigma wrapped up in a mystery. :hail:

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18 Nov 2010, 7:19 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

nthach wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

menintights wrote:

Hey, we fobs don't like you ABCs either, so the feeling's mutual. :thumleft:

you're a FOB??? you continue to fascinate me!

hey, I was born in the US!

i know - that's why she called you an ABC right?

i was talking to menintights about my fascination with her. menintights is an enigma wrapped up in a mystery. :hail:

Yea, except I'm not Chinese...

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18 Nov 2010, 7:27 pm

nthach wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

nthach wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

menintights wrote:

Hey, we fobs don't like you ABCs either, so the feeling's mutual. :thumleft:

you're a FOB??? you continue to fascinate me!

hey, I was born in the US!

i know - that's why she called you an ABC right?

i was talking to menintights about my fascination with her. menintights is an enigma wrapped up in a mystery. :hail:

Yea, except I'm not Chinese...

yeah, i guess that would be the "C" part in ABC right? what part of asia is your family from, if you don't mind me asking?

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18 Nov 2010, 7:40 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

nthach wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

nthach wrote:

hyperlexian wrote:

menintights wrote:

Hey, we fobs don't like you ABCs either, so the feeling's mutual. :thumleft:

you're a FOB??? you continue to fascinate me!

hey, I was born in the US!

i know - that's why she called you an ABC right?

i was talking to menintights about my fascination with her. menintights is an enigma wrapped up in a mystery. :hail:

Yea, except I'm not Chinese...

yeah, i guess that would be the "C" part in ABC right? what part of asia is your family from, if you don't mind me asking?

Technically, Cambodia. My dad was born in Vietnam and my mom has a little Chinese in her.

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18 Nov 2010, 9:48 pm

nthach wrote:

well guys, I've feel back into breakdown mode again in a week. But not because of things here, but from bad news delivered from a friend at school.

all things must pass. both good and bad. your bad feelings will pass, though maybe not as soon as you would like.

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18 Nov 2010, 10:42 pm

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Technically, Cambodia. My dad was born in Vietnam and my mom has a little Chinese in her.

Yeah, I suspected that from your username, but I couldn't remember the correct insult when I wrote that post.

Banana. That's what I was supposed to call you.

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19 Nov 2010, 12:38 am

man, what the hell did I do to deserve all this s**t happening to me?

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