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CockneyRebel
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19 Dec 2010, 11:48 pm

It's great that you have so many people in your family who care about you. I hope that you're feeling better, soon.


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20 Dec 2010, 10:54 am

tangomike wrote:
Theweirdpig:

I dont judge though you took watching someone to a different level. I never stalked anyone, it might have appeared that way to others when I showed up or was at the same place as this gir/or girls, but if so it was by chance....not to mention I had a friend with me at those times.

thanks for your response....its horribe being called a stalker-it feels like a knife in my chest because id never do that. yes, I look at some girls and guys profiles and their pictures, whether i know them or not but its not to stalk them. im just a curious person is all, I feel like a cat sometimes- always peering around and observing. anything i see I take it at face value, but i guess other ppl dont take things at face value and so me looking at ppls facebooks counts as stalking to them.


tangomike:

Do you have problems with confidence? It just seems to me that men who appear to be confident can do the same things and can get away with it. What I'm saying is that a lot of this has to do with the perception they have of you. They are obviously overreacting and immature. If you go and do everything just the way you have been doing it, and do it with confidence, they can't say you're doing anything out of the ordinary. Confidence is hard, so I hope you have someone to work on it with you.



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04 Jan 2011, 4:03 am

tangomike wrote:
Todesking and hesting : yeah, people do tend to overlook some of your deficiencies when you are attractive but unfortunately im not very attractive

So the avatar is not showing you? ;)

I also think it's a confidence issue.



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04 Jan 2011, 7:18 am

that is me, though Ive put on a few lbs since then.

I agree its defiantely a confidence issue, I have low self esteem thus I look 'creepier' with whatever I do I guess.