Sweetleaf wrote:
Yeah I know how that is......for me I found the best option was to just quit trying to convince people I am not lazy and selfish. I mean either people will be understanding that you can be forgetful and are not totally active most of the time or they are going to think you are selfish and lazy no matter what you say, if you say anything in your self defense then its an 'excuse' no matter what it is you say.
Its easier said then done, after all its still hard for me to totally not care when people assume things like that.
Thanks, yes this is what I am beginning to figure out. The fact is I have tried years to change and while I have learned some valuable skills (and stressed myself out), the fact is that I havent really changed on the inside at all. I am still that awkward, slow, dreamy person who is wrapped up in their own world.
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Taking a break.
23 May 2011, 11:50 pm
