wefunction wrote:
This whole "nt world" thing is BS.
I have to agree - at the end of the day, it's really not between NT v NAT people but
people. People are people at the end of the day - we all have different motivations, desires, and so on. I would run a mile from a seriously clingy woman, for example, as dealing with her all the time would utterly drain me. I don't know of anyone locally that would fit me either (and I have my own issues with depression) but the only way to go is forward, I'm afraid. It's a bloody hard part of life but there it is.
What do you do if someone cheats on you though? Or even worse, if someone tries to mainpulate you into enjoying it sexually? That's what I would worry about. Do you just kick her arse to the kerb or something else?