richardbenson wrote:
Oh dont worry about it my man. sociaty tells you what is beautiful and what isnt so that should tell you everything.
when i dont wear my glasses i'm crossyed. my lips are f-ing gigantic (for a white boy) and i dont have the american dream
but my grandpa is almost bald and hes the nicest guy around. what sociaty thinks is ugly i generally tend to find beautiful

i'm female so it's a bit devastating to visibly lose hair. tell you what, if i lose most of it and shave the rest, i'll post a picture.
Chronos wrote:
I'm sorry to hear about your mother. Do ask for accommodations at work. Come armed with a doctor's note and consult an advocacy group on th matter ahead of time.
If your job is the main stressor, you should try to find a new one in a different field. Or maybe there is another position within the company you can get into.
yes, i am actually a trained teacher but the stress in that field is higher. i don't qualify for a transfer withiin the government as i am a term contract employee still (until february). there is a hiring freeze on creating new positions due to the economy and we have a fiscally conservative government. when openings do come up due to retiirments etc, there are hundreds or thousands of applicants for the one position.
i already took a 33% pay cut in downgrading from teaching, to this job, and it would be a significant drop if i quit the civil service. and i am afraid too much change will actually raise my stress level.
thanks for your kind wishes, by the way.
The-Raven wrote:
I find this Louise hay self healing meditation CD really helpful for any illness and for general relaxing and making me feel good
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Self-healing-Cr ... 463&sr=8-3and try and eat some mackerel and eggs for the B vitamins.
i will check her out and see if it is something that can work for me. thank you.
Ilka wrote:
Its good to continue looking, because you have to be afraid of doctors nowadays, but I do know hair loss is stress related, and in your particular case (with all the stress you are going through), that diagnose makes sense. I am so proud of you for trying to handle your sleeping issues without meds. I was reading and article is lifehacker yesterday about improving your sleep. Maybe it could help. I also loose a lot of hair (it is a family condition), and I have noticed I loose less hair if I keep it short. Maybe it could work for you. Best wishes.
*sigh* i took the meds. i decided to try it last night and stay home sick from work today. i'm just making another post on the thread that explains why.
hale_bopp wrote:
This is awful, I'm sorry. I hope you sort it out soon.
thank you, i appreciate that.
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