Going Off to College

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You sound like me. I went back to school after a run in the military and some bank work so I was a bit older than others and I guess I was aspie though didn't know it. As for dating another aspie, that may be difficult since we're pretty rare unless you go to an aspie support group or something. There are a lot of student groups for different interests so I suggest you find one or two that interest you and meet people that way. Most of my friends were met in just such a manner, first in D&D and RPG groups and secondly in gay activism groups.

Another reason why it's important to be friends first.

Evaluating a person as a person is far more beneficial to some preconceived criteria you may have.

I worry that the only type of woman who will want to be with me is somebody who is so desparate that she will go out with anybody, simply to tell everybody that she has a boyfriend, so she will "be like everybody else". I want a woman who will tell everybody that she has me, not just "a boyfriend".

Tim