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Your husband sounds so cool. Wow.

I know, eh? In that position I'm not sure I would have the courage or testicular fortitude to be the agressor, let alone not back down when the a$$hole with the phone started trying to control the situation by bullying people into letting him out of his responsibility for causing the accident!

I don't handle conflict well and would likely back down... probably why alphas do all that posturing in the first place.


Again... good on him! Just don't dwell on it - reliving the incident will fill him with the same rage he felt at the time and it's really damaging in many ways... He must train his brain to not keep replaying it over and over, feeling the emotions each time.

I pulled a fast one him before the drugs wore off. He doesn't like to go to the hospital but his hands looked horrible so while he was still under the influence. I told him the boss called and said he wanted a all clear from a doctor. Down to the hospital they checked him over took x rays of his hands restitched one of the stitches in his hands that was cut open. Treated the second degree burns in the fingers and palms. The nurse asked the surgeon name that made such neat stitches I just went shh it will go to his head she looked at me really strangely hows he do that with one hand and how does he do the other hand and what does he use for the pain. I answered he just does and nothing she looked kind of pale nothing for it she asked nope. X rays came back and his thumbs are shattered one in 3 pieces the other in 6 they were going to schedule for tomorrow His doctor was passing thrue at that time he said today or it wont happen the ER doctor asked why. Tomorrow he wont be sedated and he wont do it. In he went 2 pins 11 screws later he came out unsedated and but loopy, one hour after getting home he left to a wood hick competition with the boys I wouldnt let him drive so he called my brother up and away they went together. He wanted to compete but my brother stopped him he was going to do a cross cut and greased pole fight. Thick headed men lol just had his fingers fixed and wants to do something that could rebrake them. Im guessing he will be on later tonight or tomorrow so the cat will be out of the bag. I hope he wont be to upset with me for sharing too much.

I think you've made him look pretty good. He can sew up his own hands? That's a pretty slick skill to have.

I would have avoided posting for a long time if I read this first I probable wouldn't have posted at all for a few week but its to late for that. I'm feeling ok not good but ok. I don't remember any thing after hearing the little miss cry so I will have to assume that what I'm told is correct as to what happened. It fits the damage to my palms as the core support to the car is tight to the rad. Yes I'm upset but not angry. Yes I had the biggest melt down of my life, I was all ready at my max for stress before the wreck. I'm quite embarrassed about the whole thing, when the emts got there I was apparently I was putting pressure on some spots that were bleeding on the mother and child but cant remember doing it. The first thing I remember is sitting on the side of the road rocking back and for trying to calm down.

Ps mrs johnny think you for not calling it an accident but a wreck "personal pet peeve"! We are going to have a little talk tomorrow about the you and the Dr. taking advantage of the side effects of the sedatives.

Fair enough. Please dont watch this johnny it for others to get an idea of what happened. This will give you a idea of what happened.
http://youtu.be/PAWZHL46B9Q?t=17s But knowing its not real takes away from the impact. I know showing a person being hurt brakes the rules but it educational video.

Damn, johnny you sound like a superhero. I think you need a long vacation after all this.

I watched it, now every time I hear My Immortal I'm going to see it. you know if it was prohibited I would do it. Another good song ruined.

Told you not to look some time you can be so childish. johnny77