Whoever said patience was a virtue lied

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There's your problem. No human being, male or female (especially female), wants to be a trophy. No one wants to feel like they're being added to a collection. Everyone wants to feel special.

BTW, I'll tell you as someone with two sisters and more female friends that I actually care about than I can count, there are few people on this earth I want to hit in the mouth more than the obvious PUA guys at the bar. They are invariably creepy as f**k, and never seem to be too successful either...

It's not illogical at all.

a. Monks practice patience.
b. Monks practice celibacy.
:: If you want to remain celibate, practice patience.

But if you want to be part of an intimate relationship, waiting patiently for it to happen is counter-productive.

It's like you said, you are competitive; so get out there and compete!

Be the kind of man that women seem to go for: interesting, not boring; exciting, not maniacal; friendly, but not clingy; rebellious, yet responsible; generous, but not a pushover; confident, but not arrogant; and attentive, but not obsessive.

Bathe daily, refrain from expressing anger, dress for the office, learn to play an instrument instead of the latest video game, never let them see you cry, and never, ever beg.

^ This might work for picking up girls. It might not work for keeping them. Just saying.

Don't think you have to worry about that buddy. Coming from someone who LIVES in the friendzone, if you've got the kind of attitude you're displaying here when you go out, no one with an ounce of estrogen in their body is going to even give you the time of day.

As far as the old "the a**hole gets the girl" adage... I have a theory about this, regarding the definition of the word "a**hole" in this context. I don't think an a**hole in this situation is someone who goes out and acts like they hate the world. I think the "a**hole" talked about here is the guy who goes out and acts like the nice guy, then turns around and f***s over the girl. So guess what, either way you go, the "nice guy" route or the "a**hole" route, the bitter attitude gets you nowhere.

It does if you keep doing it.

Of course, you also have to be able to pay for every date, pick her up in your own car, listen to her as she rambles on about her neighbor's cat, and pretend to like her emo poetry.

Once you've mastered all that, you're a shoe-in!

And the award for vaguest post ever goes to......

Ooo! Tell me! Tell me!



Seriously, anyone looking for a sure-fire, step-by-step formula for winning a woman's love would be better off doing his own research.

Shoot, I committed the error of taking Fnord seriously. Weiss, I'd say you have quite enough to go on if you seriously believe the words you're spewing. Have at it, champ.

Yeah, he's a champ alright. His posts always make my day. Keep up the good work of entertaining, Weiss.

The only part I wasn't serious about was the "Ooo! Tell me! Tell me!" part, because I thought DialAforAwesome was joking.

The rest is all serious.

But, hey ... don't take the word of a man who has been happily married for nearly 20 years ...

(That last sentence was sarcasm, by the way.)

All I understand is obsession and aggression. Patience is something too foreign and other to understand.

I wasted my party years watching anime and playing video games. I've since ditched most of the anime (Seen hundreds of different shows and movies and regret over half of them), cut back on the vidya, and been going to bars lately. I've tried alcohol, but only have one or two drinks at most and even then I drink a glass of water or drink booze with a meal. It's loosened me up in social situations but I'm still angry that I haven't caught up to my peers' level yet. I spit online game at a chick and I get called a stalker, but when her other, male friends do it, she treats them normally! Why is this? Is it because I have AS? Would they rather have me dead?

I was half joking with my post. I do agree with what you said, but there are guys who can pull all those things off and are still walking around in Single Land. Truth be told, like you said, there is no sure-fire way. Some people have it and some don't.

My Advice:

Stop trying to play "The Game." There is no magic equation to picking up chicks and most will pick up on your insecurity and fakery right away.

Woman don't want a**holes.......They want men who are confident and comfortable with who they are. As soon as you stop trying to be this fake PUA and be your genuine akward/geeky self (and be ok with it) the sooner the right type of women will begin showing interest.

I'm once again angry over the married chick moving. f*****g marries a soldier and moves to Alaska.

Why can't I have what they have? Is it because I'm an Aspie? Am I not f*****g allowed to have an intimate relationship and sex? I need it, too, even if I have to steal another guy's girl. I hate those guys for having girls I want! Why can't they be single? Why? What does it take to break them up like they f*****g deserve? All NTs need to pay for having what I don't!

I think it's funny how people often say that "nobody is entitled to sex!" But the way 90% of people act about the subject totally contradicts that. NTs often act like it's the most shocking thing they've ever heard if you tell them you're still a virgin in your 20s or older.

I don't want any of these things happening to my peers unless I do! It's not right that they get to be ahead of me in anything! I have to fight them for it no matter what the cost! Even if I have to destroy a happy home, it's worth it! I don't care if I have to backstab a friend if it means a quick lay or more.